Uh-oh. He went too far. |
 Mar 10 2007, 12:07 PM
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 MorCANcan  Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,937  |
Not sure if this goes in Relationships or not...so here goes nothing...
So, I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a month, and a few days ago, he went a little too far. We were normaly kissing, which lead to making out, which then lead to him just sticking his tongue in my mouth, when touching my butt. I'm not sure what's going on. I told him I didn't appreciate it. I'm not that kind of girl to do anything like that. I didn't talk to him yesterday, but he had two of his best friends come talk to me because he didn't know what to do. His friends told him to apologize, but he hasn't. I'm extremely upset with him, and I'm contemplating breaking up with him, since he didn't respect my wishes. Do you girls [[or guys, haha.]] have any advice? |
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Mar 10 2007, 02:38 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
What are your limits? o.O Making out and touching your ass isn't much.
I don't think you should break up with him over this. It's pretty minor. But if it bothers you, then you should maybe go have a talk with him about it. Relationships don't equal to sex, but when you think about it, no relationships is ever without some sex. He's a guy, and older than you, so he's bound to get physical with you at one point or another. It's natural. Edit: Just read your post on "Worse Sexual Experience Ever" You said that he was kissing you, touched your butt, put his hand up your shirt and tried to French. You didn't quite say all that in this thread. In this thread, I was under the impression that you guys were kissing and making out, and he was Frenching you while touching your ass...you didn't say anything about his hand up your shirt. In any case, I still think what he did isn't really all that bad. He is your boyfriend. He has raging hormones. Which lead to urges. Which leads to him wanting to touch you. I think you're just over exaggerating the whole situation. I don't know why you want him to apologize. It's not like he really did a lot of things wrong. Not respecting your wishes yes, but ever thought about that maybe when you're all over him, and kissing and making out, he'd naturally assume you'd want more? That's call being caught up in the moment. Just have a talk with him and let it go. Breaking up over this is really stupid. And if you didn't want to get physical, why get a boyfriend?o.O I'm sure any good friend, guy or girl, could be there for you when things are down, and to cheer you up. |
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Mar 12 2007, 09:05 PM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Mar 10 2007, 2:38 PM)  but when you think about it, no relationships is ever without some sex. that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. |
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ksoyeah Uh-oh. He went too far. Mar 10 2007, 12:07 PM
ashopely well, before you break up with him [possibly], BEF... Mar 10 2007, 12:18 PM ksoyeah Yes, I've told him my limits. He's older t... Mar 10 2007, 12:19 PM
momo way QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 12:19 PM) Ye... Mar 16 2007, 05:10 PM niciDOOM if you dont like those kinds of things
then why do... Mar 10 2007, 12:21 PM icy_wonderland QUOTE(niciDOOM @ Mar 11 2007, 1:21 AM)
i... Mar 16 2007, 09:15 AM ksoyeah I like having a boyfriend to talk to. Someone that... Mar 10 2007, 12:30 PM Wo0yaPo0ya I don't think you should break up with him ove... Mar 10 2007, 12:30 PM niciDOOM i wasnt saying that relationships is about sex
i w... Mar 10 2007, 12:40 PM pullthecord_x i think you're over-exaggerating a bit. you ca... Mar 10 2007, 01:00 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ It's not sex, it's just making out. But, i... Mar 10 2007, 01:08 PM camcha Thats nothing! When I was with my ex & I w... Mar 10 2007, 05:40 PM angel_revelation Was it the first time? Did you tell him when you ... Mar 10 2007, 05:55 PM suddenly she If you didn't like it, why did you let it go o... Mar 10 2007, 06:17 PM Arjuna Capulong QUOTE(suddenly she @ Mar 10 2007, 6:17 PM... Mar 10 2007, 06:33 PM My Cinderella. I think you should weigh the situation. I don... Mar 10 2007, 06:52 PM minioligo QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 12:07 PM) No... Mar 10 2007, 07:22 PM catastrophic don't break up over this or get into an argume... Mar 10 2007, 08:45 PM JakeKKing More tongue equals less passion.
Don't get a... Mar 10 2007, 08:55 PM &/degradanca. if he went a little too far, i'd say you have ... Mar 10 2007, 09:04 PM troublemaker36 like everyone else said..thats not worth breaking ... Mar 10 2007, 11:23 PM pinacoolada QUOTEAnd, it sounds like you want a best friend in... Mar 11 2007, 02:20 PM luckylife_x Agreed with pretty much what everyone else is sayi... Mar 11 2007, 05:49 PM Brittany Rachelle QUOTEI like having a boyfriend to talk to. Someone... Mar 11 2007, 06:06 PM Uronacid QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 1:07 PM) Not... Mar 13 2007, 05:37 PM black_heart isnt thats why girls should make the first move?gi... Mar 13 2007, 09:44 PM crazi_in_love_08 so why are u in a relationship .. u dont need a bo... Mar 15 2007, 06:22 PM bitesnkisses Don't break up with him over something so peti... Mar 15 2007, 06:26 PM krnxswat What are you, prude?
GROW UP. Mar 15 2007, 08:18 PM x___F0RG0TTEN If you start making out with him, then of course h... Mar 15 2007, 08:20 PM mouse_3k lol well the only thing u can do it tell him. Thin... Mar 16 2007, 08:56 AM disco infiltrator While I agree that relationships are not all about... Mar 16 2007, 05:29 PM mlexcoree Don't break up with him. Guys are guys, and th... Mar 18 2007, 09:56 PM |
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