little sister syndrome?, guys only see me as a friend... Options

[nightowl89]

Ok, im not sure what it is but all the guys I like end up 'just friends' But along the way they always give me good signs, and say and do things that make me think that they care...Its infuriating because I get the vibe that they like me a little in a romantic way too, but not enough to all out go after me.

I think they think of me as like a sis...its not like I dress super conservatively or anything. And I dont want to dress really slutty, since thats not really me either. Ive been told im attractive by guys and girls. And I've tried playing hard to get...it doesnt work with them. lol. i just dont get it...it might be that the guys I choose are more on the shy/polite side. *sigh* aka, the hardest type to nudge into a relationship...

Anyone else feel the same? I realize this is more of a rant than a quesition...any suggestions? im a second semester senior, its like the perfect time for me to find a bf

[*Uronacid*]

Ok, im not sure what it is but all the guys I like end up 'just friends' But along the way they always give me good signs, and say and do things that make me think that they care...Its infuriating because I get the vibe that they like me a little in a romantic way too, but not enough to all out go after me.

I think they think of me as like a sis...its not like I dress super conservatively or anything. And I dont want to dress really slutty, since thats not really me either. Ive been told im attractive by guys and girls. And I've tried playing hard to get...it doesnt work with them. lol. i just dont get it...it might be that the guys I choose are more on the shy/polite side. *sigh* aka, the hardest type to nudge into a relationship...

Anyone else feel the same? I realize this is more of a rant than a quesition...any suggestions? im a second semester senior, its like the perfect time for me to find a bf

I know it's tough, but don't worry about it. Relationships are as much trouble as they are appealing. Just continue to be yourself until someone loves you for who you are. Just like the quote in your signature... :]

By the way... I love your quote... I have 5 seasons of Sex in the City on DVD, and I love every single one of them. I really need to purchase the last season.