little sister syndrome?, guys only see me as a friend... Options

[nightowl89]

Ok, im not sure what it is but all the guys I like end up 'just friends' But along the way they always give me good signs, and say and do things that make me think that they care...Its infuriating because I get the vibe that they like me a little in a romantic way too, but not enough to all out go after me.

I think they think of me as like a sis...its not like I dress super conservatively or anything. And I dont want to dress really slutty, since thats not really me either. Ive been told im attractive by guys and girls. And I've tried playing hard to get...it doesnt work with them. lol. i just dont get it...it might be that the guys I choose are more on the shy/polite side. *sigh* aka, the hardest type to nudge into a relationship...

Anyone else feel the same? I realize this is more of a rant than a quesition...any suggestions? im a second semester senior, its like the perfect time for me to find a bf

[princess*missy]

aww... i know exactly how you feel! I'm going through that sitch now! it's so horrible!

I don't know what to tell you to do... I seem to go for the shy guys too. I just found out recently that the guy I'm crushing on now, likes me as "a friend" more than a crush. Horrible, huh? I got great vibes from him too... He held my hand at a fair we both went too. Confusing, huh?

I do have to say that the shy guys are the best type to crush on. They make the best bfs. They're also the most trustworthy.

[alysaphobia]

I got great vibes from him too... He held my hand at a fair we both went too. Confusing, huh?

I do have to say that the shy guys are the best type to crush on. They make the best bfs. They're also the most trustworthy.

wow hand holding yet no feelings!? that's so confusing...
but i'll have to agree on you about shy guys. they can be the hardest to get but in the end, totally worth it.