little sister syndrome?, guys only see me as a friend... Options

[nightowl89]

Ok, im not sure what it is but all the guys I like end up 'just friends' But along the way they always give me good signs, and say and do things that make me think that they care...Its infuriating because I get the vibe that they like me a little in a romantic way too, but not enough to all out go after me.

I think they think of me as like a sis...its not like I dress super conservatively or anything. And I dont want to dress really slutty, since thats not really me either. Ive been told im attractive by guys and girls. And I've tried playing hard to get...it doesnt work with them. lol. i just dont get it...it might be that the guys I choose are more on the shy/polite side. *sigh* aka, the hardest type to nudge into a relationship...

Anyone else feel the same? I realize this is more of a rant than a quesition...any suggestions? im a second semester senior, its like the perfect time for me to find a bf

[alysaphobia]

awww
i've been through that too
actually i'm kind of going through that right now, it sucks.
at my school, people can get really caught up in studying, college, sports, music, studying, studying, studying and studying so they don't really have time for relationships most of the time... so nothing romantic happens much.
but i'm okay with it since that means like 99% of the girls in my grade don't have bfs either.

maybe they get the impression you only like them as a friend?