Uh-oh. He went too far. |
Uh-oh. He went too far. |
Mar 10 2007, 12:07 PM
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![]() MorCANcan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,937 |
Not sure if this goes in Relationships or not...so here goes nothing...
So, I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a month, and a few days ago, he went a little too far. We were normaly kissing, which lead to making out, which then lead to him just sticking his tongue in my mouth, when touching my butt. I'm not sure what's going on. I told him I didn't appreciate it. I'm not that kind of girl to do anything like that. I didn't talk to him yesterday, but he had two of his best friends come talk to me because he didn't know what to do. His friends told him to apologize, but he hasn't. I'm extremely upset with him, and I'm contemplating breaking up with him, since he didn't respect my wishes. Do you girls [[or guys, haha.]] have any advice? |
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Mar 10 2007, 06:17 PM
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If you didn't like it, why did you let it go on? The moment he started doing any of that, you should've pushed him away.
If you're not able to take control of a situation like that, then find a boyfriend that's more tame or just don't get in a relationship at all. QUOTE Having a boyfriend doesn't mean sex 24/7...:[ True. But have you had sex? From what your thread implies, no, you haven't, so this isn't relevant. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and stop acting stupid. Take charge of the damn situation. You shouldn't be putting up with his little messengers. He should be confronting you himself, or vice versa. Andyeah, this should be in Relationships. |
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Mar 10 2007, 06:33 PM
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ksoyeah Uh-oh. He went too far. Mar 10 2007, 12:07 PM
ashopely well, before you break up with him [possibly], BEF... Mar 10 2007, 12:18 PM
ksoyeah Yes, I've told him my limits. He's older t... Mar 10 2007, 12:19 PM
momo way QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 12:19 PM) Ye... Mar 16 2007, 05:10 PM
niciDOOM if you dont like those kinds of things
then why do... Mar 10 2007, 12:21 PM
icy_wonderland QUOTE(niciDOOM @ Mar 11 2007, 1:21 AM)
i... Mar 16 2007, 09:15 AM
ksoyeah I like having a boyfriend to talk to. Someone that... Mar 10 2007, 12:30 PM
Wo0yaPo0ya I don't think you should break up with him ove... Mar 10 2007, 12:30 PM
niciDOOM i wasnt saying that relationships is about sex
i w... Mar 10 2007, 12:40 PM
pullthecord_x i think you're over-exaggerating a bit. you ca... Mar 10 2007, 01:00 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_ It's not sex, it's just making out. But, i... Mar 10 2007, 01:08 PM
SimplicityGirl What are your limits? o.O Making out and touching ... Mar 10 2007, 02:38 PM
x_y0urElectrikk QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Mar 10 2007, 2:38 ... Mar 12 2007, 09:05 PM
camcha Thats nothing! When I was with my ex & I w... Mar 10 2007, 05:40 PM
angel_revelation Was it the first time? Did you tell him when you ... Mar 10 2007, 05:55 PM
My Cinderella. I think you should weigh the situation. I don... Mar 10 2007, 06:52 PM
minioligo QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 12:07 PM) No... Mar 10 2007, 07:22 PM
catastrophic don't break up over this or get into an argume... Mar 10 2007, 08:45 PM
JakeKKing More tongue equals less passion.
Don't get a... Mar 10 2007, 08:55 PM
&/degradanca. if he went a little too far, i'd say you have ... Mar 10 2007, 09:04 PM
troublemaker36 like everyone else said..thats not worth breaking ... Mar 10 2007, 11:23 PM
pinacoolada QUOTEAnd, it sounds like you want a best friend in... Mar 11 2007, 02:20 PM
luckylife_x Agreed with pretty much what everyone else is sayi... Mar 11 2007, 05:49 PM
Brittany Rachelle QUOTEI like having a boyfriend to talk to. Someone... Mar 11 2007, 06:06 PM
Uronacid QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 1:07 PM) Not... Mar 13 2007, 05:37 PM
black_heart isnt thats why girls should make the first move?gi... Mar 13 2007, 09:44 PM
crazi_in_love_08 so why are u in a relationship .. u dont need a bo... Mar 15 2007, 06:22 PM
bitesnkisses Don't break up with him over something so peti... Mar 15 2007, 06:26 PM
krnxswat What are you, prude?
GROW UP. Mar 15 2007, 08:18 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN If you start making out with him, then of course h... Mar 15 2007, 08:20 PM
mouse_3k lol well the only thing u can do it tell him. Thin... Mar 16 2007, 08:56 AM
disco infiltrator While I agree that relationships are not all about... Mar 16 2007, 05:29 PM
mlexcoree Don't break up with him. Guys are guys, and th... Mar 18 2007, 09:56 PM![]() ![]() |