Once upon a time, there was a boy and girl. Options

[fall3n_s0ul]

They knew each other before they even went to jr. high school. Somehow, the girl fell inlove with the boy. And secretly the boy loved her as well. But the stupid boy chose a different girl over her, and then broke her heart. Even after that, maybe they were never lovers, but they were great friends. He went to her house every day after school. Watched cartoons, went pizzarias, slept together on the same beds and leaned on each other when one of them were tired. They we almost lovers, but it never came to it. The boy always made her cry somehow, but then he always wiped away every tear she cried for her. The boy had noone by his side but the girl understud him better than anyone. They were always there for each other, whether on the phone or in each other's arms. That was 3years ago, now is now. The girl's feelings faded away but the boy's feelings grew stronger and stronger. They grew closer and closer but the girl only think of him has brothers and sisters. The boy couldn't bare seeing her with any other guy so the guy confessed his love to the girl and said he's sorry. The boy was so scared he would lose her forever. But things worked out, they were still best friends even though the girl knew the boy loves her. They continued to call each other everyday, but even so - the barely spends time with the boy or even sees him in school. Later, the girl fell for a guy. The boy hates his guts and hates the fact she loves him. The girl thinks he's being jealous but he tells her she deserves better. No matter how much the boy gets mad, she always finds a way to make him smile again. The boy is lost. what should the boy do?

[mytangerine]

i can relate. i liked this guy a really long time & we always hung out & had lunch together & stuff. we would always flirt in that 'mean' way, where we'd make fun of each other, but know that neither of us meant anything we said, etc. as time went on, i honestly thought he was going to ask me out. we never actually confessed that we both liked each other so much, although it was pretty obvious. we talked on the phone everyday. one day, he told me that he was going to go to a dance with this other girl, i was secretely really upset, yet supportive. they're going out now & have been for three months. we ended up confessing our feelings for each other when him & her first began going out. it was a really confusing time & i kind of became the girl on the side.. but we never did anything like kiss or anything that would be 'cheating'. we still had a really close friendship on the phone while him & the girl just began going out, & we still have a close relationship, yet it's not the same as it was. we can never hang out at school because his girlfriend is really suspicious of me & thinks that i'm trying to steal him away from her. i really really hate her. so the only contact we have are the quick hugs when she's not around at school & the phone conversations. it really sucks.

anyways, the point is; i still have major feelings for him & he does for me too, maybe a tad bit less since he now has a girlfriend. i'm personally hanging on to those feelings because i know that eventually things will work out. i don't know if that's stupid or a waste or time or what but i'm doing it anyways, because that is what my heart is telling me. you could possibly do the same if you feel that you have a chance of winning her over from that a-hole. i don't know, just do what you think is right. sorry i was no help, i bet. just trying to be supportive though, because we sorta have similar situations.