Boys, I have a few questions. |
 Mar 6 2007, 10:25 PM
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Okay, guys. Let's just say you're a senior, and Prom is coming up. You ask a junior girl to go with you, and she says yes. You go and have an incredible time, and along the way, you two become a couple. You become super close, you spend a lot of time together, you grow to love each other more with everyday. Everything seems perfect, for the most part.
Flash forward about a year. It's the girl's time to shine for her senior Prom. You two have been together for nearly a year, about 11 months. For the longest time, the two of you have been planning on going together, and then all of a sudden, two months before Prom, you decide you don't want to go. You don't want to have anything to do with Prom. Naturally, the girl is pretty upset... this is her only senior prom she is ever going to get, and you back out of it completely. After all, all the girl really wanted to do was spend Prom with the one person who means the most to her. And, to top it off, you don't want her to dance with another guy, or you're "done for good". Um... is the girl overreacting? Or is the guy just a COMPLETE dumbass? |
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Mar 8 2007, 04:25 PM
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I think it was a bad idea asking for guy's opinions because they obviously don't understand what Prom means to some people - haha. Prom is like the celebration of surviving high school and you want to be there for it with the ones you love, which obviously includes the guy you've been with for almost 2 years. I feel it's incredibly inconsiderate of him to not even try and recognize your feelings, and then to go and say that you can't dance with any other guys. Tell him how you feel about his decision. Though it's not a "I did this, so you have to do that" type of deal, you can still point out that you happily went with him to his Prom and he should do the same for you if he cares how you feel.
It also makes sense to consider his feelings, too. I know I would be uncomfortable going back in time to my old high school with people I don't know. But honestly, if he really cares about your feelings then I don't see why he wouldn't go. He's also older now and I think he needs to recognize that you put yourself out by going to his older Prom and he should do the same for you. |
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xoxo_koala_kisses_ Boys, I have a few questions. Mar 6 2007, 10:25 PM
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Go to prom and dance with... Mar 18 2007, 10:13 AM blaqheartedstar i'm soo ruining it for people who want to go..... Mar 18 2007, 11:28 PM |
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