how can i break up with him?, he doesn't want to ._. Options

[Jinny]

so theres this guy.. brandon. yeah we've been together for a few weeks. it was.. nice. well nowadays he's been "really busy" lately. well i found out from a friend that he cheated on me A LOTTT of times, and got away with itt. when i told him about it, he denied everything. i believed him [like a stupid idiot]. well i actually saw him cheating on me with my own eyes. later, i told him i saw him with another girl, and i wanted to break up with him. he started getting all sad, saying that he couldnt live without me, and he loved me, and he said "im a stupid a-hole. [i know!] forgive me Jinny... PLEASE! i won't EVER do it again!" well, i don't forgive ppl that easily, so i just said "BRANDON, I WANT TO BREAK UP WITH YOU!" he said he would never leave me and no matter how many times i say that i want to break up with him he will stay with me forever. no matter what happens.


how can i break up with him? whatever i do or say, he won't break up. i told him that i would spread a rumor about him but he said he wouldn't care. UGHHHH

[alysaphobia]

i think he's just trying to save his own pride.

if he doesn't seem to get it, talk to him again, and tell him that you're breaking up with him, not that you just want to break up with him. then ignore all his calls, emails, IMs and any form of begging he may choose to pursue to try to "get you back". when the relationship ends is NOT his decision anymore; you've already made your choice to end it, regardless of what he says.