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x-klutzibabi-x
post Mar 3 2007, 10:58 PM
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Well, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little more than a year. I know he loves me a lot, like....he has our entire future planned out. I don't take it seriously though. Anyways, it just feels like my love is slowly fading away for him. I'm not as attracted to him, and getting a little bored with him.

Sometimes he does annoy me when I tell him that I need to do my homework during lunch, but we end up spend lunch together since he'll complain that we don't spend enough time together. A few times I told him that I need space, but he overreacts and think that I'm breaking up with him. He's like...too attached to me. Whenever I tell him that he needs to back off a little, he gets upset and becomes a little more attached.

I want to break it off with him, but I'll know he'll get hurt and I still have feelings for him.
 
 
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alysaphobia
post Mar 4 2007, 07:57 AM
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your space is valuable. everybody needs their own time, doing what they want, and it can get really irritating if somebody wants to control how you spend that time.

i think you need to be really honest and have a talk with him about how you dislike when he tries to cling to you. don't let him dictate how you spend your space; make sure you have your say over your own personal agenda. if he continues to cling unnecassarily to you... i think you should break off the relationship. that's what i'd do.
 

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