Stuck like glue.. Options

[x-klutzibabi-x]

Well, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little more than a year. I know he loves me a lot, like....he has our entire future planned out. I don't take it seriously though. Anyways, it just feels like my love is slowly fading away for him. I'm not as attracted to him, and getting a little bored with him.

Sometimes he does annoy me when I tell him that I need to do my homework during lunch, but we end up spend lunch together since he'll complain that we don't spend enough time together. A few times I told him that I need space, but he overreacts and think that I'm breaking up with him. He's like...too attached to me. Whenever I tell him that he needs to back off a little, he gets upset and becomes a little more attached.

I want to break it off with him, but I'll know he'll get hurt and I still have feelings for him.

[*Uronacid*]

Sounds like he was really attached to begin with, and when you tried to get your space he took it like you were breaking up. This can cause him to want to cling on to you even more. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.

Hey, it's normal to need space. I needed space today. That space is what keeps you unique. It's what keeps you being you, and him being him. If you spend to much time together it's almost like you become one mind. You become bored because you loose that uniqueness. You loose the excitement. Your love maybe fading away because you don't have that space.

Are you spending to much time together? If you are, take a break from each other for a day or two. Go hang out with some friends. Don't think about what he wants, because sometimes "what he wants" is NOT what's best for your relationship.