Help!, I've gotten obsessed! :'( Options

[Dreamers]

Okay, there is a guy a couple years older than me, hes in 8th grade, so as you know, im young and crushes are natural for a 6th grader but...He is my brothers friend, hes real cute and funny, and he spends the night at our house often to play video games/get on computer with my bro. I usually hang out with them when he comes over. anyway, it started out as a little flicker of happiness when I saw him, but now its gotten to where I need to exchange words with him or see his face at LEAST once a day to remain in a good mood! He likes someone else, i know that much. Basically, I don't stand a chance with him, and I NEED to get over him, I just can't though! He has these eyes that laugh, so I can never stay mad at him! I need some way to get over him before I get hurt by it.



I'm like a little sister in his eyes, I can tell because....


*He pushed me onto the couch at aunts house, then rolled me onto the floor. When I got up, he pushed me back onto the couch. pounced on me, then got off, laughing the whole time, like I've seen my brother do to our 5 year old cousin.

*He loves to poke me!

*He gets quite annoyed when I complain about something

*Once I got hurt at school, i loked at the scratch said 'Oh, apparently it left a mark.' He was like 'Oh, lemme see!' then acted like he was gunna punch me where I got hurt.

*He loves to mess up my hair, escpecially if I just got out of the shower.

*sometimes he just asks to get a slap!


* I had to be sandwitched by him in Scholar Bowl when I went into sub for my friend. I said "Sorry, dude. i'm squeezing in." He smiled at said he didn't mind, at least he got to sit by someone he knew.

* he willingly sat by me with open seats. This again was probably because he doesn't know the other scolar bowl members too well.


These are all things that a guy would do to a younger sister, am I correct? We are both on Scholar Bowl, so we see each ther alot.




Anyway, I'm liking him more by the second, and as I said, I'm going to end up getting hurt by the guy who likes me as a sister, and has a crush on another girl. Help me!!!!

[cori-catastrophe]

You are young & you have plenty of time to get to know guys your age. Guys are immature & do stupid things, like what you mentioned, at time. It doesn't mean anything particular.