When is it over? Options

[lilnae]

So ive been with this guy for two years on and off. Everytime we break it off its always me that does it, he is so good to me, good with my family all that perfect, i know that i love him and want to be with him and that he is what im looking for, i jus cant seem to be with him, its like i mean im 16 and i dont wanna be tied down cuz with him its like we're married im still a teen ya know i mean i wanna be with him in the futre like hes perfect marriage amterial but im not palnning on getting married anytime soon and it like if Im scared if i dont be with him now he wont wann be with me later....so i mean does it mean i should move on and forget him and he should od the same or what Help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pkbabe]

im 16 and i dont wanna be tied down cuz with him its like we're married im still a teen

Uhh is the situation like this:

• You guys spend ALL of your free time together either in person on phone/IM/email & you have no time whatsoever to be your own person
• He tells you who you can(mainly can't) talk to
• Tells you how you should act like/what you should be
• Tells you that he wants to get married asap(when you reach legal age) & force you to put aside what you wanna do(career wise. Maybe even college) to be a young housewife
• Tries to convince you that everyone is against you guys & you 2 are better off yourselves(ex. Stop talking to friends & just talk to only him 24/7)
• Calls you at least 60+ times a day & if you miss calls he won't stop til you answer
• Overprotective & thinks you can't do anything yourself
• Expects you to always bail him out when hes in trouble(most likely financially but it could be other things)
• You're not allowed to do things without him knowing while he can come & go as he please

If thats what you mean by feeling 'tied down" then just cut him loose. You don't wanna have to put up with that. I went through that for over a year. I felt like if I didn't do what he told me I would be wortheless which actually made me empty cuz I felt my life's purpose was suppose to serve him & make him happy no what the cause. Even if it was at the cost of my own happiness. But now I'm free

But if hes not a controlling freak like what I mentioned above then its all on you. Nothing wrong with him if thats the case.

f**king SERIOUSLY!!!! I'm sick of you f**king ladies doing this shit to us. I loved this girl so much and she kept doing this exact same shit to me. It killed me, she was trying to keep me on hold or some shit. Don't mean to be mean, but you're being mean to this nice poor fella.....meany!

^^ agreed. So really...think about it. & for goodness sakes talk to the guy!

[Edit] If he does find someone else, I wouldn't blame him