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I like my best friend's crush
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post Feb 26 2007, 11:56 PM
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My friend has liked this guy for 4 years now. It's been sooo long.
Just this year, I got to know him, and I'm starting to like him a lot. But when she found out, she got mad at me.

I understand that she's mad, but she can't have dibs on him for 4 years, can she? He doesn't even like her back. I haven't figured out if he likes me, yet.

I would never date him for respect for my friend. But she's mad that I even LIKE him. I don't flirt a ton with him or anything. I talk to him like I would any other guy friend.

Am I in the wrong? Am I supposed to ignore him & stop talking to him? Because I know I can't ignore my feelings for him-- I've tried.
 
 
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Aerjae
post Feb 27 2007, 12:49 AM
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It's not cool to like the same person. Especially if it's your bestfriend who likes him too. If she liked him first... I think you should step back and see what happens. It doesn't mean you can't talk to him though
 
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post Feb 27 2007, 01:01 AM
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QUOTE(just_rissa @ Feb 27 2007, 12:49 AM) *
It's not cool to like the same person. Especially if it's your bestfriend who likes him too. If she liked him first... I think you should step back and see what happens. It doesn't mean you can't talk to him though


Omg, do you have any reason behind what you say?

This is basically what I got from your post, "Don't have feelings for someone when your friend likes them... that's bad."

C'mon, why is it wrong? Are you to lazy to give reason behind what you say, or do you just have nothing to back it up?
 
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post Mar 2 2007, 05:08 AM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 27 2007, 2:01 PM) *
Omg, do you have any reason behind what you say?

This is basically what I got from your post, "Don't have feelings for someone when your friend likes them... that's bad."

C'mon, why is it wrong? Are you to lazy to give reason behind what you say, or do you just have nothing to back it up?

I agree.

There's nothign wrong with liking the same person your best friend does. Define "not cool", and what do you mean, step back and see what happens?
 

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