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 Mar 1 2007, 12:18 PM
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Why is it so important to get to know someone well before passing judgement? (Perhaps judgement isn't the proper term...) Hypothetically speaking, that would be great. I'd love to get to know all of you very well but who has that much time? First (or current, whatever) impressions are not completely useless and this impression can be based on interactions with yourself and others, whether they be in person or online. Someone's attitude with you will most likely be different from the attitude with another being as most of us, if not all, are guilty of being subjective.
It may be due to personality traits and differences that all this happens; I can't be too sure. However, to get to know someone, honesty and communication from both sides are key. |
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Mar 2 2007, 01:43 AM
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 Yawn  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Yeah, getting to know someone is important and all, but it is also really important to get to know the front they put on for people. It helps you learn more about the person. The fact that they put on a fake smile or a bitchy attitdue tells you alot about the person as well. And seeing their facade is just important when learning about who they are as a person.
Of course, it really is crucial to get to know someone. But if they seem like a really ugly person from your first few encounters, chances are that they are like that. I mean, some people just get a long better with certain people then others . just, life. |
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mona lisa One step closer... Mar 1 2007, 12:18 PM
Frénésie I think 'getting to know someone' is getti... Mar 1 2007, 12:27 PM Chessboxxa 101 First impressions aren't always right. Mar 1 2007, 12:36 PM
Frénésie QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ Mar 1 2007, 6:36 P... Mar 1 2007, 12:57 PM mona lisa Yeah, judgement seems to be too harsh of a word.
... Mar 1 2007, 12:43 PM Ether First Impressions are ussually fake, and used to t... Mar 1 2007, 01:00 PM Paul Murph-E Do be tricked. It's nice to play along. Mar 1 2007, 01:01 PM Duchess of Dork First impressions are just that, first impressions... Mar 1 2007, 01:20 PM Señorita Semi-Automatic Goodness, I've had so many bad first impressio... Mar 1 2007, 01:38 PM Frénésie How many people do you actually think you can ... Mar 1 2007, 02:07 PM Jeng first impressions are usually fake, but people do ... Mar 1 2007, 03:27 PM Arjuna Capulong Maybe first impressions wouldn't give you enou... Mar 1 2007, 04:00 PM kayceeisms First impression aren't fake, they're the ... Mar 1 2007, 06:37 PM Funky Buddha First impressions fool me all the time so I tend t... Mar 1 2007, 09:13 PM turntabletux I'm black, so I'm pretty much f**ked for t... Mar 2 2007, 01:37 AM turntabletux I try not to judge people, because I hate it when ... Mar 2 2007, 02:29 AM |
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