Will she stay?? Options

[J_Field07]

Hi,

I'm on my mid-forties, I had not been lucky when it comes to relationships, it's not that I’m some repressed middle-aged who’s never been on a relationship before, don't get me wrong. In fact, I have been on a couple of healthy relationships in the past, but for some reason they never worked out.
For quite a while, after breaking up with my former girl, I know it sounds corny, but I started to lose faith in love because I really thought she was the one. So, as a way of relaxing and having a good time, this friend of mine advised me to take one of these tours to Russia. You know, the ones that are popular these days, because he said I’d meet beautiful women. At first, I gotta say, I had my doubts, but after thinking it over, I made up my mind. Therefore, with nothing to lose (except for a couple of bucks), I went on the tour, and indeed I met this dead- gorgeous, smart and sincere gal, we just simply clicked after meeting each other, we had the best time together while I was in Russia, and ever since I came back to the states we kept in touch almost every day by phone, chat, and e-mails.

I am very serious with her. We’re on a one-year relationship now. I know it's hard to have long distance relationship, but she’s definitely worth it, plus over the past year I went back to visit her on three occasions.
We have talked about her moving to the states and she’s ok with it. Lately, I have started to think about popping the question once she moves in, of course she doesn’t know about it.

But here are my concerns:

Do you think I am rushing things? Or should I just go for it and propose?
I know it‘s hard to say, but do you think it will work? You know, my being American and her being Russian? Or is it that you think she will have a hard time adapting to America and she’ll just feel like going back to Russia because of homesickness and stuff.


Any piece of advice would be very appreciated.

Thanks

[*Intercourse.*]

I think you guys are off to a great start, being in that big of a long distance relationship I really have to admit that I look up to you for that. Very sweet. Although when she moves to the states its going to be her first time living over here. Its going to be something completely new to her and you have to make her feel welcomed and comfortable, so she won't get homesick, etc. I don't suggest popping the question right when she gets over here. I think you should give it some time when she moves in. Get comfortable and get use to living with her to make sure shes the right one. Then you lose all your doubts and you can answer all your questions on your own, then I suggest popping the question

Good luck.

[J_Field07]

I think you guys are off to a great start, being in that big of a long distance relationship I really have to admit that I look up to you for that. Very sweet. Although when she moves to the states its going to be her first time living over here. Its going to be something completely new to her and you have to make her feel welcomed and comfortable, so she won't get homesick, etc. I don't suggest popping the question right when she gets over here. I think you should give it some time when she moves in. Get comfortable and get use to living with her to make sure shes the right one. Then you lose all your doubts and you can answer all your questions on your own, then I suggest popping the question

Good luck.

Yes it would be the first time she moves to the States that is why I'm so concerned about it cause I want her to feel as confortable as possible once she's here that way moving to the states will not be so hard for her and hopefully she will start thinking about the US as place to live permanently.
Thanks for you advice I'll take into account.