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 Mar 1 2007, 12:18 PM
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Why is it so important to get to know someone well before passing judgement? (Perhaps judgement isn't the proper term...) Hypothetically speaking, that would be great. I'd love to get to know all of you very well but who has that much time? First (or current, whatever) impressions are not completely useless and this impression can be based on interactions with yourself and others, whether they be in person or online. Someone's attitude with you will most likely be different from the attitude with another being as most of us, if not all, are guilty of being subjective.
It may be due to personality traits and differences that all this happens; I can't be too sure. However, to get to know someone, honesty and communication from both sides are key. |
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Mar 1 2007, 04:00 PM
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 Photoartist  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
Maybe first impressions wouldn't give you enough information about somebody to "judge" them, but I wouldn't say you'd necessarily have to talk and hang out with someone and "get to know them" in order to "judge" them.
I'd feel safe to "judge" someone if I did something like go through their living quarters for a little while. |
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mona lisa One step closer... Mar 1 2007, 12:18 PM
Frénésie I think 'getting to know someone' is getti... Mar 1 2007, 12:27 PM Chessboxxa 101 First impressions aren't always right. Mar 1 2007, 12:36 PM
Frénésie QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ Mar 1 2007, 6:36 P... Mar 1 2007, 12:57 PM mona lisa Yeah, judgement seems to be too harsh of a word.
... Mar 1 2007, 12:43 PM Ether First Impressions are ussually fake, and used to t... Mar 1 2007, 01:00 PM Paul Murph-E Do be tricked. It's nice to play along. Mar 1 2007, 01:01 PM Duchess of Dork First impressions are just that, first impressions... Mar 1 2007, 01:20 PM Señorita Semi-Automatic Goodness, I've had so many bad first impressio... Mar 1 2007, 01:38 PM Frénésie How many people do you actually think you can ... Mar 1 2007, 02:07 PM Jeng first impressions are usually fake, but people do ... Mar 1 2007, 03:27 PM kayceeisms First impression aren't fake, they're the ... Mar 1 2007, 06:37 PM Funky Buddha First impressions fool me all the time so I tend t... Mar 1 2007, 09:13 PM turntabletux I'm black, so I'm pretty much f**ked for t... Mar 2 2007, 01:37 AM KissMe2408 Yeah, getting to know someone is important and all... Mar 2 2007, 01:43 AM turntabletux I try not to judge people, because I hate it when ... Mar 2 2007, 02:29 AM |
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