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| *mona lisa* |
 Mar 1 2007, 12:18 PM
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Why is it so important to get to know someone well before passing judgement? (Perhaps judgement isn't the proper term...) Hypothetically speaking, that would be great. I'd love to get to know all of you very well but who has that much time? First (or current, whatever) impressions are not completely useless and this impression can be based on interactions with yourself and others, whether they be in person or online. Someone's attitude with you will most likely be different from the attitude with another being as most of us, if not all, are guilty of being subjective.
It may be due to personality traits and differences that all this happens; I can't be too sure. However, to get to know someone, honesty and communication from both sides are key. |
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| *Frénésie* |
Mar 1 2007, 12:27 PM
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I think 'getting to know someone' is getting exaggerated. If you've got an attitude, I don't think I'd waste my time just to get to know you. Even if you aren't generally like that.
Most of the time, we're juged by the way we 'present' ourselves (I just translated from French to English). Especially on the internet. You can't get to know EVERYONE on this forum so 'first impression' is extremely important. I wouldn't call it judging either Mona. I don't know what other name for it. There's also the 'you don't know him / her so don't bla bla' excuse. Again, we can't get to know everyone from A - Z. That's life. |
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mona lisa One step closer... Mar 1 2007, 12:18 PM
Chessboxxa 101 First impressions aren't always right. Mar 1 2007, 12:36 PM
Frénésie QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ Mar 1 2007, 6:36 P... Mar 1 2007, 12:57 PM mona lisa Yeah, judgement seems to be too harsh of a word.
... Mar 1 2007, 12:43 PM Ether First Impressions are ussually fake, and used to t... Mar 1 2007, 01:00 PM Paul Murph-E Do be tricked. It's nice to play along. Mar 1 2007, 01:01 PM Duchess of Dork First impressions are just that, first impressions... Mar 1 2007, 01:20 PM Señorita Semi-Automatic Goodness, I've had so many bad first impressio... Mar 1 2007, 01:38 PM Frénésie How many people do you actually think you can ... Mar 1 2007, 02:07 PM Jeng first impressions are usually fake, but people do ... Mar 1 2007, 03:27 PM Arjuna Capulong Maybe first impressions wouldn't give you enou... Mar 1 2007, 04:00 PM kayceeisms First impression aren't fake, they're the ... Mar 1 2007, 06:37 PM Funky Buddha First impressions fool me all the time so I tend t... Mar 1 2007, 09:13 PM turntabletux I'm black, so I'm pretty much f**ked for t... Mar 2 2007, 01:37 AM KissMe2408 Yeah, getting to know someone is important and all... Mar 2 2007, 01:43 AM turntabletux I try not to judge people, because I hate it when ... Mar 2 2007, 02:29 AM |
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