Will she stay?? Options

[J_Field07]

Hi,

I'm on my mid-forties, I had not been lucky when it comes to relationships, it's not that I’m some repressed middle-aged who’s never been on a relationship before, don't get me wrong. In fact, I have been on a couple of healthy relationships in the past, but for some reason they never worked out.
For quite a while, after breaking up with my former girl, I know it sounds corny, but I started to lose faith in love because I really thought she was the one. So, as a way of relaxing and having a good time, this friend of mine advised me to take one of these tours to Russia. You know, the ones that are popular these days, because he said I’d meet beautiful women. At first, I gotta say, I had my doubts, but after thinking it over, I made up my mind. Therefore, with nothing to lose (except for a couple of bucks), I went on the tour, and indeed I met this dead- gorgeous, smart and sincere gal, we just simply clicked after meeting each other, we had the best time together while I was in Russia, and ever since I came back to the states we kept in touch almost every day by phone, chat, and e-mails.

I am very serious with her. We’re on a one-year relationship now. I know it's hard to have long distance relationship, but she’s definitely worth it, plus over the past year I went back to visit her on three occasions.
We have talked about her moving to the states and she’s ok with it. Lately, I have started to think about popping the question once she moves in, of course she doesn’t know about it.

But here are my concerns:

Do you think I am rushing things? Or should I just go for it and propose?
I know it‘s hard to say, but do you think it will work? You know, my being American and her being Russian? Or is it that you think she will have a hard time adapting to America and she’ll just feel like going back to Russia because of homesickness and stuff.


Any piece of advice would be very appreciated.

Thanks

[gr00vyswordsman]

Sensing you are religious, I would pray about it. Ask “him to show you a sign, wither a visible sign, or an emotional feeling.
My step uncle met a girl 2 weeks before he had to move due to military. In Colorado it had not rained for about 6 weeks, and it was really hot. He really liked her. He asked Him to she him a sign and lord did. H in his prayer he was told, if it does not rain by the third day, she is not mint to be, if it does, she is the one. And, it rained. There were other signs to. My uncle wanted the girl to have aspects; the same exact car as his, He want her to learn a language but not just any langouge, it had to be a language of a place she desires to visit and for my uncle to know that language. She met these aspects of his dream partner. That’s 1 in a 100… so, as I pray for my situation, I pray for yours!