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When is it over?
lilnae
post Feb 25 2007, 05:44 PM
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So ive been with this guy for two years on and off. Everytime we break it off its always me that does it, he is so good to me, good with my family all that perfect, i know that i love him and want to be with him and that he is what im looking for, i jus cant seem to be with him, its like i mean im 16 and i dont wanna be tied down cuz with him its like we're married im still a teen ya know i mean i wanna be with him in the futre like hes perfect marriage amterial but im not palnning on getting married anytime soon and it like if Im scared if i dont be with him now he wont wann be with me later....so i mean does it mean i should move on and forget him and he should od the same or what Help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
 
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post Feb 26 2007, 07:01 AM
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So ive been with this guy for two years on and off. Everytime we break it off its always me that does it, he is so good to me, good with my family all that perfect, i know that i love him and want to be with him and that he is what im looking for, i jus cant seem to be with him, its like i mean im 16 and i dont wanna be tied down cuz with him its like we're married im still a teen ya know i mean i wanna be with him in the futre like hes perfect marriage amterial but im not palnning on getting married anytime soon and it like if Im scared if i dont be with him now he wont wann be with me later....so i mean does it mean i should move on and forget him and he should od the same or what Help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


First of all, if you keep breaking it off then you obviously don't love him more than a friend. You said you don't want to be tied down, even though you claim it's with some one you love, therefore you're being selfish. And love only yourself in this relationship.

To say that you don't want to be in a relationship only because you're a teenager is blind. I'm not going to give you sympathy because it is a big misconception that people want sympathy when they ask for advice. Love doesn't know an age, at least it didn't any other time in history. So, why does it now?

I really think you need to think about this one by yourself. We can't tell you what to do, but I do enjoy yelling at people.
 

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