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jenjjen
post Feb 25 2007, 07:32 PM
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okay so this guy im in one of his classes and ive kindof liked him since the beginning of the school year. he went out with one of my close friends this year and i still kindof liked him then too. they arent together anymore but i know she still likes him, and i do too... alot. except she doesnt know it. and he's one of my really really good friends like my best guy friend. we like talk about everythin together and he's really nice to me. but i dont know if i should go out with him cause my friend still likes him. i mean i even told him that i used to like him and all and he was okay with it and its never awkward around him. but what should i do? i get jealous when they talk together and stuff though (which isnt very often). and sometimes i cant help but wish they werent even friends at all or anything. it makes me so annoyed. but when they were together i was at my worst; i was still her friend and all and happy for her but part of me was very jealous and i was very unhappy. i feel really bad for thinking this way. i wanna be happy for her but i just cant.
 
 
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post Feb 25 2007, 07:58 PM
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Ooh, tough situation to be in.
Have you considered talking to your friend about this, or try getting a feel for how she might react towards your feelings for him?

I'm sure you cherish and respect your friendship with her, so I think before you do anything (like try and pursue something further with the guy), you should make things clear between you and her, or at least see where she's coming from if you can't come to telling her just yet.

From there on out you should be able to work your way up a tad easier with this whole ordeal.
Let's just hope that she'll be understanding, civil and most of all mature when handling this new information - and more ideally, supportive.
 

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jenjjen   guy helpp.   Feb 25 2007, 07:32 PM
MasteRxKiD   Ooh, tough situation to be in. Have you considered...   Feb 25 2007, 07:58 PM
ItsSelvy   QUOTE(jenjjen @ Feb 25 2007, 7:32 PM) oka...   Feb 25 2007, 08:12 PM
Cujiine   Well you should talk to her about it. I know that...   Feb 25 2007, 09:28 PM
Shaixe   Oh, the good old days of high school politics. I d...   Feb 26 2007, 09:40 AM
angel_revelation   QUOTE(Shaixe @ Feb 26 2007, 6:40 AM) Oh, ...   Feb 27 2007, 12:49 AM
JakeKKing   QUOTE(jenjjen @ Feb 25 2007, 7:32 PM) oka...   Feb 26 2007, 01:05 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(jenjjen @ Feb 25 2007, 7:32 PM) oka...   Feb 27 2007, 12:56 AM
just_rissa   Hmm.. You shouldn't go out with your best guy ...   Feb 27 2007, 01:01 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(just_rissa @ Feb 27 2007, 1:01 AM) ...   Feb 27 2007, 01:16 AM
The Abominable C-Pillar   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 27 2007, 1:16 AM) So...   Feb 27 2007, 01:30 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Feb 27 2...   Feb 27 2007, 01:36 AM
The Abominable C-Pillar   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 27 2007, 1:36 AM) Je...   Feb 27 2007, 01:43 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Feb 27 2...   Feb 27 2007, 01:50 AM
The Abominable C-Pillar   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 27 2007, 1:50 AM) Oh...   Feb 27 2007, 01:59 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Feb 27 2...   Feb 27 2007, 02:05 AM
The Abominable C-Pillar   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 27 2007, 2:05 AM) Al...   Feb 27 2007, 02:21 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Feb 27 2...   Feb 27 2007, 02:34 AM
The Abominable C-Pillar   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 27 2007, 2:34 AM) I ...   Feb 27 2007, 02:43 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Feb 27 2...   Feb 27 2007, 02:53 AM
The Abominable C-Pillar   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 27 2007, 2:53 AM) Wh...   Feb 27 2007, 09:51 AM
ksoyeah   Awwww. :[ I'm sorry to hear that you were very...   Feb 27 2007, 01:03 AM


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