My very date & nervous Options

[pkbabe]

Well this is pretty weird for me to ask but...what should I do to prepare for a date?

Some info that would help

• I'm 19 hes 27
• Were going to the movies & then get take out or something

As you can tell hes an older guy & I want to make a good impression. A bit help on how to look more mature/my age(I'm often mistaken for a 16 yr old. Can you say "jailbait" LOL) but mainly the etiquette of going on a date. Its next saturday so I have some time.

[pkbabe]

(BEWARE: this post is VERY long. Read at your own risk)

Updates(again):

• Well we had the date yesterday(although I planned it for next sat but whatever).
• Wasn't as dressed up as I wanted but he liked it. He kept commenting on my "sexy shoulder shirt" cuz the shoulders would slide down (I had a tank top under) LOL
• Got Taco Bell & he paid (cuz usually when I was with my ex I'd pay for everything so this was pretty new for me...in a good way of course)
• Watched Ghost Rider & it was alright. We both enjoyed ourselves & didn't have to worry about awkward silences cuz well...no talking in the movies

Overall it was pretty good. He paid for everything! Didn't go broke for once. Only thing I have to complain about is him smoking from time to time (EeWw)

wow, you already f**ked the 30 yr old and you STILL have to worry about awkward silences?
what a relationship.

anyway, what kind of self respecting 30 yr old would date a 19 year old? but thats besides the point.

You're mean....& hes 27,not 30!

You're often mistaken for a 16 year old? Are you sure he isn't one of those weird dudes that hangs out at the pre-schools?

Yes...a 16 yr old. People think my 17 yr old bro is my older bro alot of the time(which I REALLY hate). & no, he usually goes for 21+ but he told me that he made an acception with me cuz he thinks I'm "really cute" but I don't know...I think I'm ok I guess

Well, to make sure there aren't any awkward silences, you can always practice what you're going to say in advance. I mean it sounds silly, but it could go a long way when it comes to starting conversation.

I did actually & it helped out alot! Talked about his work(which I find kinda boring but he enjoys it) & his fam situation & vice versa(my stories are never boring )

That is so wrong.

Camcha, don't listen to what anyone tells you about age. I'm twenty years old, dating a man that's forty-two and we get along great. I love him for so many reasons, but the one that I appreciate most is his maturity. There are always those creepy old men out there that you have to be wary of, but I would think you're capable of judging this guy for yourself.

As for the date, don't worry about it! If things are meant to work out, they will. Just take a deep breath and recognize the fact that he'll probably be as nervous as you are, going by your update post.

I really wish you the best!

Thank you so much for your words. Most people judge me for it thinking I'm crazy for being involved with him. & I wish the best for you as well