forgive me.? |
forgive me.? |
*Monochrome.* |
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Well as some of you all know the story about my abusive boyfriend i had. If you dont what basicly happend was he cheat on me all the damn time.he used to hit me and he was drug adict. i stayed with him becasue i didnt want my band to be affected by our break up[i was a dumbass]. then when i find out he cheated on me and that i wasnt good enough for him and spit on me[flem and everything]. i went balistic and chased his ass down beat the f**k out of him and ended up breaking both of his arms
![]() so the other day. 1 day before it would have been our 3 year aniversary he messaged me on myspace. telling me he was sorry for being a "shittyboyfriend" and that he truely does miss me and that he was extreamly sorry and that if i ever wanted to be his friend again that it was all up to me,. so now i dont know what to say. he caused me alot of pain in my life but i moved n from that. so i suppose its time for me to fogive and try again right? i know thats stupid to ask in a online forum for advice but i am.=] so what advice do you have for me? |
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If you feel it's best to forgive a guy who did all that shit to you, then fine, it's your decision. But that doesn't mean you have to be friends. If you decide to forgive him, just let it be that. Tell him you forgive him, but you don't want him back in your life. I can forgive someone and not want to see them, it doesn't mean that I have some harbored animosity, just that I don't want to be reminded of what they did and I'd rather leave them as an aquaintance.
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