Perfect Closet Romance? |
Perfect Closet Romance? |
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CHYEAAHHH MAN ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 ![]() |
For privacy reasons, I am going to be using letters for people. A = Me because I'm always so perfect (haha just kidding) B = my friend C = her friend who I met and is now is my friend
Got it? So C just started working with A and B and A (which is me) has a crush on C. *BY THE WAY, A is GAY - B is a woman - C is the one I'm deciding on* B and C have been friends for a while and the other day they were drinking together and she was talking about work and since I'm a perky person, I introduced myself because he was a def. cutie. B was like, so C, what do you think of work? And mind you they are both hardcore drunk, C told B that he would "definatley go gay for A". So A (again that's me for the people who haven't caught on) is like, OHH I hope he is because I have a hugeeee crush on him and there are seriously not many people in my area that swing my way so it is like nearly impossible (we are all 17 seniors in HS, B+C go to school together and I go to a diffrent school). But yeah, we work together one day and I am totally attempting to flirt (very poorly) and I end up asking if he wants to go on break together. Most supposed straight guys would be like....uh....sure? but he was just like yeah okay so at that point I'm thinking he's either straight and reallly secure or maybe he slightly is. So we go on break together and we start asking each other a lot of questions, and we talked a lot more than while we were working so maybe he was waiting to get away from people we know. He's like I'm tired, and I am like why? So he's like oh I was at a party last night and I didn't get back until like 5:30 this morning. We get back to work and the rest of the day is normal. A calls B up (I really don't know why I'm referring to myself as A) and is like, OMGGG SO LIKE WE WENT ON BREAK TOGETHER and I tell her my love at first sight sob story. And she tells me he was at her house last night and she had her shirt off and they were making out but she didn't feel anything and he really wasn't "aroused". She also told me he didn't have a girlfriend for like the past four years and so a part of me is really hoping that he happens to be gay also because that would be perfect, but I know I am most likely dreaming. He seems very hetero and the only reason I'm kind of thinking about whether he is or not is because of what he said to B and the fact that I, for the first time, have a real crush and it's not just a "oh he's cute, I'd probably do him or date him" kind of thing. It's like a real crush, and with me that doesn't happy very often. Opinions? |
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your story was turning into like a multiple choice test. i suggest you don't push it or try to pry. forcing someone who hasn't come to terms with their sexuality to come out could have really bad effects. i know you really like him but best you give it time. maybe become really good friends with him. if you prove yourself to be a trustworthy confidant, he may eventually come out to you. but don't expect anything. just be a good friend. question: does C know that A is gay? |
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