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| *Monochrome.* |
 Feb 22 2007, 04:02 AM
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Well as some of you all know the story about my abusive boyfriend i had. If you dont what basicly happend was he cheat on me all the damn time.he used to hit me and he was drug adict. i stayed with him becasue i didnt want my band to be affected by our break up[i was a dumbass]. then when i find out he cheated on me and that i wasnt good enough for him and spit on me[flem and everything]. i went balistic and chased his ass down beat the f**k out of him and ended up breaking both of his arms
 so the other day. 1 day before it would have been our 3 year aniversary he messaged me on myspace. telling me he was sorry for being a "shittyboyfriend" and that he truely does miss me and that he was extreamly sorry and that if i ever wanted to be his friend again that it was all up to me,. so now i dont know what to say. he caused me alot of pain in my life but i moved n from that. so i suppose its time for me to fogive and try again right? i know thats stupid to ask in a online forum for advice but i am.=] so what advice do you have for me? |
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Feb 22 2007, 08:18 PM
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I'm Cattt. :]  Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
No, no, no, and no.
Don't even bother. What he did to you before is going to be that way in the end. You don't deserve him as a bf or a friend. |
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Feb 22 2007, 08:27 PM
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QUOTE(Chérie. @ Feb 22 2007, 8:18 PM)  Don't even bother. What he did to you before is going to be that way in the end. You don't deserve him as a bf or a friend. Cat, I think you mean that her ex doesn't deserve to be her boyfriend or friend.  I think you should forgive him and become friends slowly again if you trust him enough not to mess things up a second time. If he hurts you again, though, end things immediately and don't let him contact you again. |
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Monochrome. forgive me.? Feb 22 2007, 04:02 AM
JakeKKing Ha ha. Well, any sign of anything wrong you get yo... Feb 22 2007, 05:12 AM Monochrome. ^yeah this time if he fucks up i will break all 4 ... Feb 22 2007, 08:51 AM Cujiine ^^Well don't give him a second chance. You kno... Feb 22 2007, 09:29 AM cup noodles say no!
i was waching 20/20 or something like... Feb 22 2007, 09:35 AM Monochrome. OH guys NO
i have a boyfriend.and he knows i love ... Feb 22 2007, 12:41 PM x_y0urElectrikk I think it'd be good to forgive him and maybe ... Feb 22 2007, 02:55 PM chasingvictory deng you messed him up really bad.. yea you should... Feb 22 2007, 06:37 PM cup noodles oh, haha. i read it wrong.
then i guess you could... Feb 22 2007, 06:43 PM Unrequitted lover well Its better to forgive, but not forget. Give ... Feb 22 2007, 07:24 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Well, I always think life is too short to hold gru... Feb 22 2007, 07:39 PM
Monochrome. QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Feb 23 2007, 12... Feb 23 2007, 12:00 PM The Abominable C-Pillar If you feel it's best to forgive a guy who did... Feb 23 2007, 01:33 PM Monochrome. QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Feb 23 2... Feb 24 2007, 08:09 AM ging_er_in ^I agree. But if you do want to see him or hang ou... Feb 25 2007, 12:23 AM |
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