Relationship Help, Some people just don't get it. Options

[Kontroll]

I've been apart of this group for a little while now, and it just seems that the people are so damn ignorant. I try to tell them that they should just do what they feel is right. You know, use common sense, but it seems that over and over, I always here that same sad story. I feel like I should pull out my violin or something and play them a song.

How do you think I should get them to listen to me and stop crying about their stupid little problems?

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

I think you need to tell the person straight up that you really don't have the time to sit there and listen to the same stuff over and over again. You need to let them down easy.. and not like.. " BITCH, I DON'T CARE! " I mean come on they are your friends. I would also tell them that you have problems that you have to deal with also and you just don't have the time to worry about other people when you have shit to deal with in your own life.

YEAH!

[Kontroll]

I think you need to tell the person straight up that you really don't have the time to sit there and listen to the same stuff over and over again. You need to let them down easy.. and not like.. " BITCH, I DON'T CARE! " I mean come on they are your friends. I would also tell them that you have problems that you have to deal with also and you just don't have the time to worry about other people when you have shit to deal with in your own life.

YEAH!

They aren't my friends. Just random people. Read my post again, then Jeremy's. It will be really obvious what I'm talking about.

Simple really, just ignore them.

Ignore them, it's not your own problem anyway. Let them to figure it out for themselves for once. No need to elaborate on this one.

I know this has nothing to do with this topic, but are you in our club? I'm just wondering cause your signature says 'The Holy Trinity' I don't know if you're just goofing around, but it's funny.

i totally agree. there are those who are dying, have no food, have no homes right now; they are worrying if they'll live tomorrow. (dramatic much?) while some are worrying what they are going to wear tomorrow and/or how to lose weight..

get your friends to meet hobos or go to africa...then they'll understand.

Dude, I love you. That's my total outlook on selfishness. You have it better than so many other people, why are you crying about your life? Exactly.

THANK YOU! SOME ONE UNDERSTANDS!

You start learning the violin. I can help you there.

haha. Yeah, I actually have a violin bow in my room. It's for my guitar. I know. Doesn't make much sense, but it sounds awesome. Haha. I need to learn how to fiddle to cheer up the selfish bastard emo kids. haha.

I agree, you really need to ignore them... I am one of the most frequent users of this forum. I know... there are some problems that are so f**king stupid on here. You just need let life take it's course.

Haha. Yeah, it is pretty sad that we joined this forum at the same time pretty much and you have almost three times as much posts as I do. Loser. Get a life!

Dude, if I ignore them I wont get a spot on Top Ten Poster of the Day. DuH!

Well, before you can do that you need to stop crying yourself. It would help if you weren't such a bitch. haha. joking dude. The majority of the randomly opinionated on this site are between the ages of 12 and 16. Of course they're not gonna listen to you, you can't relate to "their" problems. Because it's not like you haven't been through the exact same thing. Plus they don't actually want your help, just say they do in order to talk about the newest thing in their life. If you want them to actually listen, go to their houses and beat the sense into them, that is after they get back from little league and their paper route.

How can I not relate to their problems? That's the point of advice. To get information from some one who has been there already. Obviously if I can answer their questions I've had to deal with it one time or another in my life. Some advice to you. Stop masterbating so much and get a real job. LOOK I"M OVERDOING IT LIKE JOSH DOES!