Trust?, I need him to trust me Options

[chaoticchrissy]

Its a long kinda story. We have been together on and off for about half a year. Hes an amazing guy. He gives me everything I need. and not just sexually. I love him, and I know I love him. He gives me that kinda high everytime I see him.. okay but anyway,, The past few months I was cheating on him. It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? I don't even have a reason for it? I guess I like change. & I lied about it the whole time even though he knew it. He knew I was lien. But I kept saying I wasn't cheating. He knew it, & I knew he knew. But I feel like I've changed now, and all those guys that I talked to before were a waist of my time... But anyway we broke up & He took me back. I need to do somethin' to get his trust back fully. I cut off a bunch of dudes I had on the "side" kinda thing and he said that was helping... I feel like I'm out of ideas, Ive never had to "gain" someones trust before,, what the hell do I do?

[demolished]

You're a slut. How do you expect him to believe you. YOU MADE IT HARDER FOR HIM TO TRUST YOU. You just blew him away. And, what's not? you're asking for trust. what kind of person you are when you're just running off to more people. it doesnt matter if you cut more dudes or whatever.

love is about being loyal and respecting your partner's love.

if you really want to get with him, start all over, say sorry to him, and not being a whore anymore. you should know better that you shouldnt be hogging people at once. it's never fair for anyone.

[chaoticchrissy]

You're a slut. How do you expect him to believe you. YOU MADE IT HARDER FOR HIM TO TRUST YOU. You just blew him away. And, what's not? you're asking for trust. what kind of person you are when you're just running off to more people. it doesnt matter if you cut more dudes or whatever.

love is about being loyal and respecting your partner's love.

if you really want to get with him, start all over, say sorry to him, and not being a whore anymore. you should know better that you shouldnt be hogging people at once. it's never fair for anyone.

Saying I'm a slut really helps the situation, thanks bud =)

[demolished]

Saying I'm a slut really helps the situation, thanks bud =)

Lady, that's not the point. I don’t hate you or whatever. I just want to point it out that your action is a characteristic of a slut to me. You don’t have to be a slut. You could be a better person by starting now. It takes time for young people like you to become wise, experienced, learn your mistakes and realize what’s you’re doing or who you are. It’s important to know your sense of you who you are. problems will always be problems. they dont go away UNTIL YOU SOLVE IT IN A RIGHT WAY.

[*Uronacid*]

Lady, that's not the point. I don’t hate you or whatever. I just want to point it out that your action is a characteristic of a slut to me. You don’t have to be a slut. You could be a better person by starting now. It takes time for young people like you to become wise, experienced, learn your mistakes and realize what’s you’re doing or who you are. It’s important to know your sense of you who you are. problems will always be problems. they dont go away UNTIL YOU SOLVE IT IN A RIGHT WAY.

You call her a young person, but how old are you? If I recall you aren't much older than her... in fact, I remember giving you advice about a highschool problem. I don't even consider myself to be wise or experienced... I just read a lot of books...
Why don't you give her a suggestion to help her "SOLVE IT IN A RIGHT WAY".

[demolished]

You call her a young person, but how old are you? If I recall you aren't much older than her... in fact, I remember giving you advice about a highschool problem. I don't even consider myself to be wise or experienced... I just read a lot of books...
Why don't you give her a suggestion to help her "SOLVE IT IN A RIGHT WAY".

What do i called her? An very very very old lady or what? To me, it doesn't matter. She's young, right? I dont even remember your advice and i dont have to. i really dont care if you're telling me about the "wiseness" or not. i would consider you a helpful person and i have nothing against that. It's good to have someone to help others.



If you read carefully, i did offer suggestions. Other than that, i dont even know her ... so, what are my success rate of "fully helping" her or whatever ?