Getting over your Ex Options

[crazy-like-a-foo...]

How do you get over your Ex? I met my boyfriend last may, and we just got on straight away, i enjoyed his company, he enjoyed mine and we looked forward to our weekends together, he was slightly naive and slightly younger but i didnt mind that, i quite liked it. We are both gay, he didnt know the gay scene and i did so i shown him and we went out every week for about three months. He was a good looking lad but it wasnt about looks, i just loved him. Every time he left to go home the next day when he had stayed over and we had been out i would long for the next week to see him again. After 3 months we split up, i dont think he was ready for a proper relationship, it hurt so much nobody can understand unless you have been there, i just cried and got drunk for 3 days and ignored uni and work and everyone. we didnt speak for a few months, then he turned up suddenly and we had sex which was a mistake, and i still had feelings for him, but then he found a new boyfriend which only lasted 3 weeks, then they split up.

This last 3 weeks he has been coming round again, he has changed so much for the better and i still love him more than he could know, i wanna look after him, be with him, give him a bit of confidence which he lacks. I dont know if he feels the same but i still love him more than ever, and the first thing i do when he goes home at weekends is cry, i just wanna be with him so much. He has been talked into having sex by 2 people since we split and he hates himself for it, he is so naive, i hate the thought or people useing him.

I dont wanna tell him i still love him incase it scares him off and our special friendship is ruined, i do want him in my life either as boyfriend or friend, but i just cry when he goes and miss him so much, i dont know what to do. Dont know if to tell him and take the risk, or just carry on as i am or not see him. I care so much about this lad its unbelievable.

[*Uronacid*]

Alright, it sounds like you haven't had closure in your relationship. I mean, you definitely weren't the one who broke it off. You obviously still have feelings for this guy.

Why did you guys break up, and how did it happen?