i need a girl...i think Options

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

Well, I guess you could call me one of the losers at my school...I think? I guess I should tell about myself a little first >.<. I'm 14 and I look...uglyyyyyyy. I don't do social stuff but the "popular" people talk to me as do the non "popular" people. I am HORRIBLE with girls. I mean, I can talk to them fine. But, if I like them in any way at all I become . I never had a real girlfriend cause I really don't know what I would do. I "had" a girlfriend last year but we never really went out cause...I'm bad at this stuff. Well, my predicament is: Loser likes girl, girl is friend with loser, girl doesn't like loser. So...any ideas? lolz...and I have a pic too...heres the link http://img42.photobucket.com/albums/v129/x...om/MVC-319S.jpg

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

Sorry about the picture...as you can see I have trouble taking pictures of myself. The girl I like is my friend and I am trying to change my look but I have no cash cause I have no way to get it. I can't work cause no places around here will let me get a job (there is one but its volunteer). I cant get money off my parents cause they ask and then they question and if i say clothes they say "Why you need clothes? When I was young, I only had...blah blah". I typically wear some type of jeans, and a plain t-shirt. I sometimes gel my hair. In the summer I wear basketball shorts and a tanktop (scrawny arms >.<) and I leave my hair alone cause its funny...it sticks up...no matter how long...

i think that's a very cute style. why do you feel the need to change your appearance so bad? i think you look just fine. new clothes and a new look aren't necessary. you should work with what you have. as i said before confidence truly influences how you appear to other people. if you want to look more appealing .. ACT more appealing. i think t-shirts and jeans are just fine.. i wear the same. it has no bearing on my personality. if you're an interesting person and there's a lot to you that people don't know.. let them get to see that side of you. money and all of that shouldn't be an issue. with time you'll find a job and you can get things that you want .. but keep in mind they're just things you WANT and not things you NEED.