why are most girls like this ? Options

[Mr. Slowjamz]

ok sooo like ever since, i started being a little more sociable ..clubbing having fun and chilling , most girls shy away from deep conversations . are they just too scared too open up too much ? are they scared that i might just ruin there life and tell there secrets ? . im the type of guy who loves deep thoughts , its very romantic . but maybe i havent talked to the right girl at all ? i dunno . so are most girls like this ? they tend to stray away from deep convos and why ? i get infatuated with REAL girls i hate shallow ladies ,there such a turnoff.


Alicia Keys diaries playing in the backgroud.

[espressive]

Really? That's so weird!

Cause it's usually guys that are afraid to have intimidate conversations. You're quite the opposite! Maybe the girls just aren't use to it, or maybe you approach it wrong...? I don't know, but although girls do like to talk about ourselves - don't ask us personal questions directly. Have you ever heard of the trick of conversations is to ask the other person questions because everybody likes to talk about him/herself? Yeah, this doesn't work so well with personal questions. It just makes everything reallly awkward. I'll suggest that you casually move into an intimidate conversation by starting out with a light conversation first and perhaps share some things about yourself... and if the girl feels comfortable, she'll talk without the need for you to nudge her. If she doesn't respond much, then it's probably not worth pursuing.