Log In · Register

 
My very date & nervous
pkbabe
post Feb 20 2007, 03:17 AM
Post #1


Senior Member
*****

Group: Member
Posts: 332
Joined: Dec 2006
Member No: 485,651



Well this is pretty weird for me to ask but...what should I do to prepare for a date?

Some info that would help
  • I'm 19 hes 27
  • Were going to the movies & then get take out or something
As you can tell hes an older guy & I want to make a good impression. A bit help on how to look more mature/my age(I'm often mistaken for a 16 yr old. Can you say "jailbait" LOL) but mainly the etiquette of going on a date. Its next saturday so I have some time.
 
 
Start new topic
Replies
femmefatale4160
post Feb 20 2007, 11:01 AM
Post #2


I've got ADD and magic markers. Oh the thrills I will have.
*****

Group: Member
Posts: 624
Joined: Jul 2006
Member No: 445,743



Okay, far be it from me to criticize the age difference between you; You're an adult and you can make your own decisions, so I'll give you some solid advice.

-Ask him what kind of things he likes: Movies, music, hobbies, etc. Guys love it when a girl shares their interests.

-Don't talk too much.
I'm not saying that you should clam up and sit there in silence, but you should make sure that you're being a good listener. Pay attention to what he says.

-Be open.
If you seem guarded, that will turn him off. Act like you really want to be there with him.

-Smile!
I can't stress this enough. Again, make it seem like you WANT to be there. Besides, almost everyone looks better when they smile.

-Don't stress.
Don't worry. Relax, and at the date, make sure that your conversation flows naturally. Don't plan out what you're going to say, or you'll sound rehearsed.
-------------------------
As for the mature look, there are a few things you can do to appear more your age.

Makeup: Try either a smoky eye or a "stained" lip. NOT both at the same time. Smoky eyes scream sexy, while stained lips are sophisticated.

-To "stain" your lips, run your finger over a semi-dark shade of lipstick (a shade of red is ideal) and blot it onto your lips. Then smack your lips together and you're done.

You should wear nice heels, unless you're outrageously tall or have trouble walking in them. Heels and a blazer or button down shirt make for a very sophisticated look. If that's too dressed up for the occasion, try a casual blouse, jeans, and a cute pair of boots.
 

Posts in this topic
camcha   My very date & nervous   Feb 20 2007, 03:17 AM
cup noodles   he's like..10 years older than you..   Feb 20 2007, 09:59 AM
femme_fatale4160   Okay, far be it from me to criticize the age diffe...   Feb 20 2007, 11:01 AM
Endless_Symphony   ^agree with above. except when you're open don...   Feb 20 2007, 11:50 AM
camcha   QUOTE-Don't talk too much. LOL...that I'll...   Feb 20 2007, 03:33 PM
femme_fatale4160   QUOTE(camcha @ Feb 20 2007, 3:33 PM) Well...   Feb 21 2007, 06:53 PM
mocassinsx29   this sounds corny but "BE YOURSELF" if t...   Feb 20 2007, 08:52 PM
chaneun   have sex with him. oh, and stay calm :D   Feb 20 2007, 09:12 PM
camcha   QUOTEBE YOURSELF I am...we have known each other ...   Feb 20 2007, 11:43 PM
L!ckitySplit   QUOTE(camcha @ Feb 21 2007, 12:43 AM) I a...   Feb 24 2007, 02:09 AM
Shaixe   QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Feb 24 2007, 1:0...   Feb 24 2007, 10:57 PM
JakeKKing   Listen, you're older than 17, so it doesn...   Feb 21 2007, 04:05 AM
Uronacid   Look, don't try to act mature, don't act i...   Feb 21 2007, 07:07 PM
Chérie.   Nothing to be nervous about. He should like you ...   Feb 21 2007, 07:38 PM
camcha   Updates: It seems that hes more excited about the ...   Feb 23 2007, 05:43 PM
angel_revelation   As long as you're as mature as him mentally I ...   Feb 24 2007, 01:40 AM
My Cinderella.   Well, to make sure there aren't any awkward si...   Feb 24 2007, 08:04 PM
camcha   (BEWARE: this post is VERY long. Read at your own ...   Feb 25 2007, 04:00 AM


Reply to this topicStart new topic
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: