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Trust?, I need him to trust me
chaoticchrissy
post Feb 15 2007, 05:46 PM
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Its a long kinda story. We have been together on and off for about half a year. Hes an amazing guy. He gives me everything I need. and not just sexually. I love him, and I know I love him. He gives me that kinda high everytime I see him.. okay but anyway,, The past few months I was cheating on him. It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? I don't even have a reason for it? I guess I like change. & I lied about it the whole time even though he knew it. He knew I was lien. But I kept saying I wasn't cheating. He knew it, & I knew he knew. But I feel like I've changed now, and all those guys that I talked to before were a waist of my time... But anyway we broke up & He took me back. I need to do somethin' to get his trust back fully. I cut off a bunch of dudes I had on the "side" kinda thing and he said that was helping... I feel like I'm out of ideas, Ive never had to "gain" someones trust before,, what the hell do I do? ermm.gif
 
 
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post Feb 19 2007, 09:39 PM
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You're a slut. How do you expect him to believe you. YOU MADE IT HARDER FOR HIM TO TRUST YOU. You just blew him away. And, what's not? you're asking for trust. what kind of person you are when you're just running off to more people. it doesnt matter if you cut more dudes or whatever.

love is about being loyal and respecting your partner's love.

if you really want to get with him, start all over, say sorry to him, and not being a whore anymore. you should know better that you shouldnt be hogging people at once. it's never fair for anyone.
 

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__Nessa   Trust?   Feb 15 2007, 05:46 PM
krnxswat   One thing you have to realize: you can't gain ...   Feb 15 2007, 06:58 PM
priyas   ^^i agree with him.   Feb 15 2007, 07:07 PM
xMyStIcShAd0wSx   Think about this honestly in you head. If you tr...   Feb 15 2007, 09:08 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(__Nessa @ Feb 15 2007, 5:46 PM) Its...   Feb 16 2007, 01:34 AM
JakeKKing   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 16 2007, 1:34 AM) It...   Feb 16 2007, 04:38 PM
xMyStIcShAd0wSx   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 16 2007, 1:34 AM) It...   Feb 17 2007, 05:04 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Feb 17 2007, 5:04...   Feb 17 2007, 06:01 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Feb 17 2007, 5:04...   Feb 17 2007, 09:51 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 17 2007, 9:51 PM) It...   Feb 18 2007, 12:45 AM
deus_ex_machina   "We always hurt the ones we love" is qui...   Feb 17 2007, 09:22 AM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   Why should he trust you after what you did to him....   Feb 17 2007, 12:29 PM
S0ul_Reaper   as seon ho was stating Gaining his trust back woul...   Feb 17 2007, 03:42 PM
__Nessa   Thanks. Yesterday I seen him & quite frankly i...   Feb 17 2007, 06:39 PM
krnxswat   You don't love him. Get over it.   Feb 17 2007, 08:22 PM
__Nessa   QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 17 2007, 8:22 PM) Yo...   Feb 18 2007, 06:22 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(__Nessa @ Feb 18 2007, 6:22 PM) don...   Feb 18 2007, 06:37 PM
flypigzfly   may i state something? if you really loved your bf...   Feb 17 2007, 10:04 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   How could you possibly even expect him to trust yo...   Feb 18 2007, 06:50 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   You're a slut. How do you expect him to believ...   Feb 19 2007, 09:39 PM
__Nessa   QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Feb 19 2007, 9...   Feb 20 2007, 04:56 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(__Nessa @ Feb 20 2007, 1:56 PM) Say...   Feb 20 2007, 10:06 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Feb 20 2007, 10...   Feb 21 2007, 05:30 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 21 2007, 2:30 PM) Yo...   Feb 21 2007, 09:58 PM
__Nessa   QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Feb 20 2007, 10...   Feb 22 2007, 09:09 PM
x_y0urElectrikk   hmm yeah I pretty much agree with what most of the...   Feb 20 2007, 07:33 PM
paulanthony   it's gonna be hard for him to trust you, esp. ...   Feb 21 2007, 08:22 AM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   I say you sit him down and tell him everything. Yo...   Feb 21 2007, 05:41 PM
Usuckalemon2   Trust doesn't come that easily.. esp with some...   Feb 22 2007, 09:15 PM


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