Trust?, I need him to trust me |
 Feb 15 2007, 05:46 PM
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Its a long kinda story. We have been together on and off for about half a year. Hes an amazing guy. He gives me everything I need. and not just sexually. I love him, and I know I love him. He gives me that kinda high everytime I see him.. okay but anyway,, The past few months I was cheating on him. It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? I don't even have a reason for it? I guess I like change. & I lied about it the whole time even though he knew it. He knew I was lien. But I kept saying I wasn't cheating. He knew it, & I knew he knew. But I feel like I've changed now, and all those guys that I talked to before were a waist of my time... But anyway we broke up & He took me back. I need to do somethin' to get his trust back fully. I cut off a bunch of dudes I had on the "side" kinda thing and he said that was helping... I feel like I'm out of ideas, Ive never had to "gain" someones trust before,, what the hell do I do?
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Feb 16 2007, 01:34 AM
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QUOTE(__Nessa @ Feb 15 2007, 5:46 PM)  Its a long kinda story. We have been together on and off for about half a year. Hes an amazing guy. He gives me everything I need. and not just sexually. I love him, and I know I love him. He gives me that kinda high everytime I see him.. okay but anyway,, The past few months I was cheating on him. It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? I don't even have a reason for it? I guess I like change. & I lied about it the whole time even though he knew it. He knew I was lien. But I kept saying I wasn't cheating. He knew it, & I knew he knew. But I feel like I've changed now, and all those guys that I talked to before were a waist of my time... But anyway we broke up & He took me back. I need to do somethin' to get his trust back fully. I cut off a bunch of dudes I had on the "side" kinda thing and he said that was helping... I feel like I'm out of ideas, Ive never had to "gain" someones trust before,, what the hell do I do? It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? Yeah, maybe because you didn't actually love him... what the hell do I do? I don't know... everyone is different, but one thing we all have in common is that (like knrxswat said) trust takes time. You aren't going to gain that trust back in a matter of days. It could take months, years even. On top of all that, the fact that you cheated on him is going to ensure that you're walking on the sharpest pins and needles your boyfriend can muster all along the way. Think of trust like a little status bar in a video game. Everything you do with that person effects that status bar. Example:
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Feb 17 2007, 05:04 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 16 2007, 1:34 AM) It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? Yeah, maybe because you didn't actually love him... what the hell do I do? I don't know... everyone is different, but one thing we all have in common is that (like knrxswat said) trust takes time. You aren't going to gain that trust back in a matter of days. It could take months, years even. On top of all that, the fact that you cheated on him is going to ensure that you're walking on the sharpest pins and needles your boyfriend can muster all along the way. Think of trust like a little status bar in a video game. Everything you do with that person effects that status bar. Example:
Now you're making it seem like relationships are just a game. Great job. |
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__Nessa Trust? Feb 15 2007, 05:46 PM
krnxswat One thing you have to realize: you can't gain ... Feb 15 2007, 06:58 PM priyas ^^i agree with him. Feb 15 2007, 07:07 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx Think about this honestly in you head.
If you tr... Feb 15 2007, 09:08 PM
JakeKKing QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 16 2007, 1:34 AM) It... Feb 16 2007, 04:38 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Feb 17 2007, 5:04... Feb 17 2007, 06:01 PM
Uronacid QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Feb 17 2007, 5:04... Feb 17 2007, 09:51 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 17 2007, 9:51 PM) It... Feb 18 2007, 12:45 AM deus_ex_machina "We always hurt the ones we love" is qui... Feb 17 2007, 09:22 AM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Why should he trust you after what you did to him.... Feb 17 2007, 12:29 PM S0ul_Reaper as seon ho was stating Gaining his trust back woul... Feb 17 2007, 03:42 PM __Nessa Thanks. Yesterday I seen him & quite frankly i... Feb 17 2007, 06:39 PM krnxswat You don't love him.
Get over it. Feb 17 2007, 08:22 PM __Nessa QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 17 2007, 8:22 PM) Yo... Feb 18 2007, 06:22 PM Uronacid QUOTE(__Nessa @ Feb 18 2007, 6:22 PM) don... Feb 18 2007, 06:37 PM flypigzfly may i state something? if you really loved your bf... Feb 17 2007, 10:04 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ How could you possibly even expect him to trust yo... Feb 18 2007, 06:50 PM Spiritual Winged Aura You're a slut. How do you expect him to believ... Feb 19 2007, 09:39 PM __Nessa QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Feb 19 2007, 9... Feb 20 2007, 04:56 PM Spiritual Winged Aura QUOTE(__Nessa @ Feb 20 2007, 1:56 PM) Say... Feb 20 2007, 10:06 PM Uronacid QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Feb 20 2007, 10... Feb 21 2007, 05:30 PM Spiritual Winged Aura QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 21 2007, 2:30 PM) Yo... Feb 21 2007, 09:58 PM __Nessa QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Feb 20 2007, 10... Feb 22 2007, 09:09 PM x_y0urElectrikk hmm yeah I pretty much agree with what most of the... Feb 20 2007, 07:33 PM paulanthony it's gonna be hard for him to trust you, esp. ... Feb 21 2007, 08:22 AM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo I say you sit him down and tell him everything. Yo... Feb 21 2007, 05:41 PM Usuckalemon2 Trust doesn't come that easily.. esp with some... Feb 22 2007, 09:15 PM |
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