Trust?, I need him to trust me Options

[chaoticchrissy]

Its a long kinda story. We have been together on and off for about half a year. Hes an amazing guy. He gives me everything I need. and not just sexually. I love him, and I know I love him. He gives me that kinda high everytime I see him.. okay but anyway,, The past few months I was cheating on him. It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? I don't even have a reason for it? I guess I like change. & I lied about it the whole time even though he knew it. He knew I was lien. But I kept saying I wasn't cheating. He knew it, & I knew he knew. But I feel like I've changed now, and all those guys that I talked to before were a waist of my time... But anyway we broke up & He took me back. I need to do somethin' to get his trust back fully. I cut off a bunch of dudes I had on the "side" kinda thing and he said that was helping... I feel like I'm out of ideas, Ive never had to "gain" someones trust before,, what the hell do I do?

[*S0ul_Reaper*]

as seon ho was stating Gaining his trust back would be a gradual process or even might not happen. These kinds of incidents stick in peoples minds and even if they want to believe that you won't cheat on them, the thought would always occurr. If theres doubt in a relationship then it's not a relationship you doubt that he will trust you again and he may doubt your motives and actions like how will I know she won't cheat on me again, do I really want to give her my trust back, will I be hurt again. If theres no form of communication being involved but just questions with no answers then your best off not being together but rather being friends. You say you loved him, but love is such a word that is overly abused, you may have sacrificed them other guys now, but that will only help a little because you admitted throwing them other guys off. It kinda sucks you even cheated on him, no one deserves that. but it's life, full of surprises and what not.

But whatever you may do, best of wishes.