My Friend//Crush, My friend is going out with a guy i LOVE Options

[Liana_Way]

Okay so there's this guy and im 99.9% sure its love
My best friend likes him
he likes her
And he is one of my best friends too
so i saw a conversation her and him had on myspace
and they realy like each other but arent doing anything cuz of me
so i told her she can go out with him since he only likes me as a friend
and i realy LOVE him so it bothers me
what do i do?

[leifiram]

I had that happen to me recently, actually. Well, I don't love him, but it's pretty much the same situation. I told them both I was okay with it, and told them to get together. They ended breaking up a week and a half later because 1)she liked another guy, and 2)she didn't want our friendship to be over. However, taking the "easier" route, I stopped being friends with her for a few months. We reconciled, but things aren't as easy. We're all still trying, though.

What I think you should do is evaluate your friendship between each of them. Ask yourself whether you could handle them being together. Talk to them, most of all. Tell them exactly how you feel, and don't hold anything back.

Good luck!