Trust?, I need him to trust me Options

[chaoticchrissy]

Its a long kinda story. We have been together on and off for about half a year. Hes an amazing guy. He gives me everything I need. and not just sexually. I love him, and I know I love him. He gives me that kinda high everytime I see him.. okay but anyway,, The past few months I was cheating on him. It seems weird how i was just saying I love him blah blah then I cheat on him right? I don't even have a reason for it? I guess I like change. & I lied about it the whole time even though he knew it. He knew I was lien. But I kept saying I wasn't cheating. He knew it, & I knew he knew. But I feel like I've changed now, and all those guys that I talked to before were a waist of my time... But anyway we broke up & He took me back. I need to do somethin' to get his trust back fully. I cut off a bunch of dudes I had on the "side" kinda thing and he said that was helping... I feel like I'm out of ideas, Ive never had to "gain" someones trust before,, what the hell do I do?

[krnxswat]

One thing you have to realize: you can't gain someone's trust in a matter of a day. It's a gradual process. It's going to take months.

Now even the smallest mistake you make is going to be blown into a bigger proportion to him because of your little cheating incident. So you better be cautious with every move you make.

Second, and this goes to any other cheaters out there claiming you love your significant other, you don't love him. You don't "accidentally" make that kind of mistakes, especially for months lengths when you love somebody.

Good luck.