Is it wrong to stil date...?, (no future) |
 Feb 12 2007, 08:18 PM
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A little lengthy, but....
Me and an old ex got back together recently. I feel bad because I broke it off the first time, for really no reason I can recall. It was just summer and I didn't want a relationship. Now we're back together and things seem fine. He's really sweet to me, but it's a little awkward on my behalf. I know I'm never going to get into anything serious with this boy and now that I'm able to have some closure, I realize I'm not really that emotionally attached to him. I know he feels differently, is hoping for there to be more in the future, and he loves me... I feel like I'm kind of leading him on...Don't get me wrong, I like him, but I just want things to be slow and casual. Holding hands, pecks, someone to talk to. Nothing more and not anything more in the future. I like the attention and the fact someone cares, but I want to keep my space and independence. I'm not sure if I should just let things be or if I should do something since I know I don't see us having a future (plus, I probably won't give him the attention he wants back). I don't know. Any advice? |
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Feb 13 2007, 06:59 PM
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Hmmm.... well if you don't feel that way .. then maybe it would be best to let him go... but just give it a little time. If you know for a fact that you're not going to have afuture then its kinda pointless... thats just my opinion. Just don't make him feel like he's being lead on...
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secrets-out Is it wrong to stil date...? Feb 12 2007, 08:18 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_ If you don't feel it, then let him go. If you ... Feb 12 2007, 08:24 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx Work it day by day.
Your feelings might change. Feb 12 2007, 08:24 PM krnxswat If you want your space and indepence, break it off... Feb 12 2007, 09:48 PM D0RkxBUTT i kinnaaa understand what chur goinq thru. Feb 13 2007, 12:14 AM
yanners QUOTE(D0RkxBUTT @ Feb 13 2007, 1:14 PM) i... Feb 13 2007, 07:04 PM D0RkxBUTT well i now that doesnt help much and all buhh like... Feb 14 2007, 10:25 PM Uronacid QUOTE(secrets-out @ Feb 12 2007, 8:1... Feb 15 2007, 01:29 PM secrets-out Thanks guys, especially Uronacid.
I guess it's... Feb 15 2007, 09:10 PM Uronacid QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Feb 15 2007, 10:0... Feb 16 2007, 01:14 AM xMyStIcShAd0wSx ^ Well Josh has read a lot of relationship books. ... Feb 15 2007, 10:05 PM secrets-out Well Cat...I guess I got back with him because the... Feb 18 2007, 10:55 PM |
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