Girls,I need advice, GIrls always know what to do,so help? Options

[sukixinaxmou]

Erik and I have been dating for 21 days.That is all.And he and I think we really love eachother.I'm not quite sure about my feelings for him,and I don't know if he is just trying to get in my pants.But,most of the time,he really does seem very respectful,and he does make it seem like he really does love me.I'm 13,and he's 15.And I am always wondering if I really love him like I say I do.So I don't know what to do.And,on top of that,he is a fifteen year old guy,and God only knows what the plans in his head are.But last night,he mentioned to me he wnted to marry me,but we are too young.But he then said after that that we are not too young to get engaged.I have had people tell me that I need to get my prioritys straight,and focus more on school.But I really don't know what to do.I need to clear my head.

[Sammiebanks]

it's too early hun. my little sister is in the same boat as you, she 'LOVES' this guy and theyve been together for 7 months, she's 14 and thinks he's her life forever from now on, but let me tell you, your wrong.


i may not be the right person to be dictating to you as i got engaged at 17, but this was to someone who i had been with for nearly 4 years, only then did we think about it. If this is a way of you two getting together just to have se.x which is what your post sounds like, dont do it! it isnt as good as it's made out to be, im being frank with you, but the younger you are, the more it hurts! my sister lost her verginity at 14 and when she went to the doctors they likened it to hitting a peach with a brick! your insides just arent ready for it and thats why theres an age limit, dont do anything silly as it really isnt worth it!

you may feel like he's perfect now, but youre only 13, there are so many more males out there, and you need to maybe experiment a bit before settling down, especially at the age of 13 :D

if your still together in 3 years, maybe think about it again, but certainly not at the moment

Sammie x