I've got a situation for you..... Options

[PandaSan]

All of my nearly 18 years of life, I have only had one person say yes when I asked her out. Only it fell through so miserably that I don't even consider it to have counted at all. She was addicted to an online game, not WoW oddly enough, and tha game had taken over her entire life. I could've lived with it, I as ready to go and get the game so I could play it with her when we weren't out. But then she has her friend give me a note that says along the lines of "Sorry, I changed my mind" and has not spoken to me since then.

It's been over a year now, and I've found the person I was really looking for the whole time. We are friends and everything. We work at the same job together, all of our friends know each other, we trust each other a lot and everything. But from past ordeals, I have a really hard time saying things in person that I do in texts and myspace...........

Any suggestions on how to fix that?

[krnxswat]

Just be yourself, bro. When girls say that you can be flirty with texts and MySpace, it tells alot about you. If you really feel she's the one, why don't you go for it? You have nothing to lose. You've been rejected most of your 18 years of your life (sorry for being so blunt). I say go for it. Get some guts. It'll be hard in the beginning but once you gain some confidence, and get comfortable with her, everything'll be okay.

Best of luck!