What kind of relationship is it?, because... Options

[MrStrife]

So there's this girl who I always liked since we first met and before she pretended that she didn't care. Then she admitted she liked me too and we started dating for a while. It was all gravy until she moved across the world to live with her pops. She visits her moms over here every summer and last time it's like we picked up where we left off. btw, this is gonna be second summer. Seriously, I'm a little bit of the jealous type and I know we both going to date when we're not with each other, (we both leave hints) but it bothers me at the same time. We keep in touch but it sort of feels like friends with benefits sometimes and we argue a lot but I know we care about each other. What does count as and what is the best way to roll with this one?

p.s. oo my fault I thought this was relationship forum. Can someone move this please?

[MrStrife]

Oh no, thats part of the fun. By hint, I mean we talk about people who we know like us and we get jealous. Then we start bashing on them talking all sorts of shit about them like there name or what not. It's an endearing sign of affection coming from hatred actually. lol. But we never talk about dates or nothing like that. But the shitty part is more "I'm going to this friends party hun" "Ok have fun & be safe babe" vice versa.

[Stefanny]

Oh no, thats part of the fun. By hint, I mean we talk about people who we know like us and we get jealous. Then we start bashing on them talking all sorts of shit about them like there name or what not. It's an endearing sign of affection coming from hatred actually. lol. But we never talk about dates or nothing like that. But the shitty part is more "I'm going to this friends party hun" "Ok have fun & be safe babe" vice versa.

Whaaaaa-ttt? Keep her on a leash. Call her every day. Make sure she's not getting with anybody you don't want her to. Be like her ninja daddy.

No, I'm kidding.
It sounds like you're not really concerned about it. But you're just asking us what kind of relationship it is anyways. It's what I call a loose thread. You're just clinging on to whatever's left, and you know that it's all going to fall away pretty soon, but you're still not willing to let go yet. I'm not going to give you any advice, because I'm too inexperienced for that, lol.

But you know:

romantic bullshit only works in movies. you 2 are trying to cling to a memory from the past of how compatible you are. you are essentially deluding yourselves into thinking you can make this work. long distance relationships NEVER work in real life, and if they do, they last a very short time until they realize they dont like each other as much as they thought they did.

^ that pretty much sums it up.