Should I be?, luv & honesty |
 Jan 29 2007, 01:25 AM
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OK,so I had a boyfriend.Barely broke up yesterday night,but then he want to get back with me.And I don't know what I should do...I mean we have things in common,and it's almost Valentine's Day.My friends supported me to agree,but both of us don't want to hurt each other again...what should I do?
 We both feeling all awkward about it,and I have no idea how he's feeling...'cause we're being separated by distance and parents,and I'm not sure if our relationships can last any longer.And since he's really smart and talented,most of the things I told him are lies....I felt I should be honest,but can't help it...  (I'm the master of all lies...kidding.But this story is true...).I also felt as if he's lying to me as well...I mean he's way too adorable,and girl go gaga on him.I'm not sure if he likes other girls,too.So yeah........Why did he have to pick me..T_TI feel so used...what should I do?Please help... |
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Jan 31 2007, 07:12 PM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(Aishiteru&Daisukidayo @ Jan 29 2007, 1:25 AM)  OK,so I had a boyfriend.Barely broke up yesterday night,but then he want to get back with me.And I don't know what I should do...I mean we have things in common,and it's almost Valentine's Day.My friends supported me to agree,but both of us don't want to hurt each other again...what should I do? We both feeling all awkward about it,and I have no idea how he's feeling...'cause we're being separated by distance and parents,and I'm not sure if our relationships can last any longer.And since he's really smart and talented,most of the things I told him are lies....I felt I should be honest,but can't help it... (I'm the master of all lies...kidding.But this story is true...).I also felt as if he's lying to me as well...I mean he's way too adorable,and girl go gaga on him.I'm not sure if he likes other girls,too.So yeah........Why did he have to pick me..T_TI feel so used...what should I do?Please help... That pretty much made no sense to me. Haha. Listen, if you both lied to eachother give it up. Tell him what you lied about, but don't go back out with him. If you think it's gonna hurt you in the long run, then don't bother. How old are you anyway? Listen, he's just some kid...there's more out there. Don't make a big deal out of something that doesn't have to be. Just tell youself....why make a big deal about something I can't control? If he wants you back, and you say yes..then so be it. It's your choice. THink for yourself sometimes. I know you come on here to get advice, but most of it is common sense. |
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Feb 2 2007, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Jan 31 2007, 7:12 PM) That pretty much made no sense to me. Haha. Listen, if you both lied to eachother give it up. Tell him what you lied about, but don't go back out with him. If you think it's gonna hurt you in the long run, then don't bother. How old are you anyway? Listen, he's just some kid...there's more out there. Don't make a big deal out of something that doesn't have to be. Just tell youself....why make a big deal about something I can't control? If he wants you back, and you say yes..then so be it. It's your choice. THink for yourself sometimes. I know you come on here to get advice, but most of it is common sense. I thought abt it,and I dont agree wit this.And I'm 13,he's 14.And I'm not like other sissies out there that chase guys like crazy,and get with whichever I want and dump them.That's not me at all...and when I love someone,no one can stop me except for him [who will make the decisions].I don't make big deal about it,I'm just saying that it's not right.And yes,it is my choice to get back with him,and since lying to him doesn't seems right,then I won't bother doing it anymore. 
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Aishiteru&Daisukidayo Should I be? Jan 29 2007, 01:25 AM
Uronacid I don't know, what did you lie about? Jan 29 2007, 12:18 PM Aishiteru&Daisukidayo Like my life...that's all.T_T If he sees me li... Jan 29 2007, 10:53 PM
Uronacid QUOTE(Aishiteru&Daisukidayo @ Jan 29 2007... Jan 30 2007, 01:24 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx If you lied from the start, it is no use getting b... Jan 29 2007, 11:03 PM Aishiteru&Daisukidayo QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 29 2007, 11:0... Jan 31 2007, 03:29 PM Uronacid QUOTE(Aishiteru&Daisukidayo @ Jan 31 2007... Jan 31 2007, 04:21 PM Aishiteru&Daisukidayo QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 31 2007, 4:21 PM) My... Feb 1 2007, 08:52 PM Uronacid QUOTE(Aishiteru&Daisukidayo @ Feb 1 2007,... Feb 1 2007, 09:04 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx You suddenly don't make any sense to me, Josh.... Jan 31 2007, 04:48 PM Uronacid QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 31 2007, 4:48... Jan 31 2007, 06:45 PM Aishiteru&Daisukidayo hihi...yup!^^- But it's OKI.Thanks a lot f... Feb 1 2007, 11:13 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx ^ Please do not double post Aishiteru&Daisukid... Feb 2 2007, 09:41 PM Aishiteru&Daisukidayo haha....sorry,cuz I posted something,then thought ... Feb 7 2007, 12:44 AM KissMe2408 If it makes you feel better my boyfriend is in Sco... Feb 7 2007, 01:17 PM Aishiteru&Daisukidayo I'm honest now...and he's starting to take... Feb 11 2007, 11:19 PM mishyerr The best advice: get over him. I used to be in an ... Feb 11 2007, 11:49 PM Aishiteru&Daisukidayo I'll probably try.Thankies!=]
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