Made a Mistake, SOS, Want to fix it!!!, I would love your opinion! |
 Jan 31 2007, 05:21 PM
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 So I need some advice here...I will try to give a bit of background. I moved to a new city with this guy I met at school, we dated a year and a half we were going to get married, BUT he cheated on me so we broke up, he was my first love and first everything. So I was obviously heart broken and went through it pretty roughly...anyways then about two months later I met this guy, and he swept me off my feet, treated me like every girl wants to be treated, did everything for me! Although the 1st guy tried to get back together with me and I didn't accept it for obvious reasons as I stated above...so me and this new guy fell in love and he treated me like a princess better than I have ever been treated...BUT since my 1st got in the way of the new guy I was not allowed to talk to him anymore etc. etc and so eventually I couldn't handle it becasue I wanted to still be his "friend" so I kept talking to him, and when new guy asked I lied about it, over and over again. So he found out about it all, and now he is heartbroken and soooo hurt and sooo mad. And if anything it made me realize how good I had it with him, and how much of a loser the 1st was! What should I do? Can I fix it, how? Or is he better off with someone who won't lie!
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Feb 1 2007, 03:56 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
I got confused with your problem but Jake's advice seems good.
Ever relationship is like a lesson, you learn from it. Now you know it is not wise to go lying to the new guy. If you just want to be friends with your ex then tell him. He might of have mistaken that for cheating and that's why he is mad. If he gets mad over the fact that you want a life out of the relationship, then he has some major jealousy problems. Trust is important for a lasting relationship. |
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Clueless21 Made a Mistake, SOS, Want to fix it!!! Jan 31 2007, 05:21 PM
?Melina? Well, you already know u shouldn't have lied, ... Jan 31 2007, 05:31 PM Clueless21 Thanks Melina, Well we aren't really together ... Jan 31 2007, 05:35 PM ?Melina? RE: Made a Mistake, SOS, Want to fix it!!! Jan 31 2007, 05:45 PM Uronacid I'm so f**king confused by that paragraph...
... Jan 31 2007, 06:13 PM Clueless21 No you have it all wrong...I am in love with my ne... Jan 31 2007, 11:28 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS You need to know what love really means because so... Jan 31 2007, 11:45 PM JakeKKing QUOTE(Clueless21 @ Jan 31 2007, 5:21 PM) ... Feb 1 2007, 12:44 AM Clueless21 Thank you Jake! That made a lot of sense, you ... Feb 1 2007, 02:02 PM
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