Made a Mistake, SOS, Want to fix it!!!, I would love your opinion! Options

[ninaD]

So I need some advice here...I will try to give a bit of background. I moved to a new city with this guy I met at school, we dated a year and a half we were going to get married, BUT he cheated on me so we broke up, he was my first love and first everything. So I was obviously heart broken and went through it pretty roughly...anyways then about two months later I met this guy, and he swept me off my feet, treated me like every girl wants to be treated, did everything for me! Although the 1st guy tried to get back together with me and I didn't accept it for obvious reasons as I stated above...so me and this new guy fell in love and he treated me like a princess better than I have ever been treated...BUT since my 1st got in the way of the new guy I was not allowed to talk to him anymore etc. etc and so eventually I couldn't handle it becasue I wanted to still be his "friend" so I kept talking to him, and when new guy asked I lied about it, over and over again. So he found out about it all, and now he is heartbroken and soooo hurt and sooo mad. And if anything it made me realize how good I had it with him, and how much of a loser the 1st was! What should I do? Can I fix it, how? Or is he better off with someone who won't lie!

[Kontroll]

So I need some advice here...I will try to give a bit of background. I moved to a new city with this guy I met at school, we dated a year and a half we were going to get married, BUT he cheated on me so we broke up, he was my first love and first everything. So I was obviously heart broken and went through it pretty roughly...anyways then about two months later I met this guy, and he swept me off my feet, treated me like every girl wants to be treated, did everything for me! Although the 1st guy tried to get back together with me and I didn't accept it for obvious reasons as I stated above...so me and this new guy fell in love and he treated me like a princess better than I have ever been treated...BUT since my 1st got in the way of the new guy I was not allowed to talk to him anymore etc. etc and so eventually I couldn't handle it becasue I wanted to still be his "friend" so I kept talking to him, and when new guy asked I lied about it, over and over again. So he found out about it all, and now he is heartbroken and soooo hurt and sooo mad. And if anything it made me realize how good I had it with him, and how much of a loser the 1st was! What should I do? Can I fix it, how? Or is he better off with someone who won't lie!

Listen, everyone lies. This new guy sounds sweet. Aww. How old are you? YOu said you just moved and planned to get married, so you must at least be 18. Hopefully a little older. But, anyway, if you are older then you have to confess to the new guy. I'm pretty sure I read somewhere that he found out...but it's like me confessing my sins to God. He already knows, He just wants to hear it from me. You know?

This first guy is a dick. Can you get a restaining order or something? haha. But, you should definitely try and persue this new guy. If you really like him. Just make sure it's not a crush[I don't think it is unless this new guy hasn't been in your life for long. I don't know] but anyway.... If you want something go for it. We all make mistakes, there's no getting around that. Talk to him in person... tell him what's going on. The worse that can happen is that he's gonna leave. You're not going to die. But you're out of the game with that dude.

So, you can either lose him by sitting back or maybe get a second chance and have the chance to win him back or have the chance to lose him. At least this way you'll have a shot.