this sucks Options

[hmm_dragon]

This sucks i like this one girl.. but i havent really met her.. ive seen her and everything and shes friends with my friends.. so thats how i know her but again dont know her lol... well the only way we can talk is though myspace! and now she just stopped talking to me so this sucks!! i had soo much stuff planed on meeting her but now she wont answer anything so blah sorry just needed to vent!! thanks for reading

[Kontroll]

Listen. Seriously. If there is any possible way you can see her in person you have to talk to her. You have to grow some stones. I pass down this knowledge to you, my friend...

I know you said you are interested in meeting her, right? Well, if you do make sure it's because of you. You take initiative and go to her. When you're talking to her, don't get too attached right away. That comes later. Talk, but don't try to find too many common ground issues because that will only make you more of a friend. I know you said she was cute, so you're obviously interested in her more than a friend. So, if you're talking to her, make sure it's not for more than about 20 to 30 minutes. MAKE SURE! Who cares if you don't have to go. Make something up. Be like, 'Oh, I have to get going, got something to do.' Who cares. But be strong.

Then, before you have to go, you ask her with confidence, 'So, when are we gonna hang out?' Don't give her the option of where and when. That's up to you. Don't ask her, 'Oh, do you want to hang out?' WRONG! With confidence and authority.

Trust me it works. I know it sounds all macho bull crap, but it's a method that has been found to work. Or you could remain the shy guy. It's up to you. If you want something go get it.

Also, to comment on her ceasing to confab with you. I hope that you're not asking yourself...'Is she mad at me? Should I send her a message on Myspace? I really think she's mad at me, but I don't know what I did.' Are you saying that to yourself, for the most part? If so, I gotta tell you that it's pretty arrogant of you.

I know it doesn't sound like it, but the fact that you're saying that you can make a girl get angry at you for a reason you don't know is arrogant. She's not mad, don't worry. She's not a bitch, if she is, that's sometimes better. Haha. More fun. Daring. Adventurous. You just gotta put her in her place before you get bitch whipped. But, I hope my advice works. You have to do this, or you'll never get anywhere with her. Maybe on that chance you'll run into her at some wierd place, but wouldn't you rather go do it now than happen by chance to see her and talk to her like a little scared puppy dog? At least you know what to do now. Okay, so use it.