Should I be?, luv & honesty Options

[ChibiLovey]

OK,so I had a boyfriend.Barely broke up yesterday night,but then he want to get back with me.And I don't know what I should do...I mean we have things in common,and it's almost Valentine's Day.My friends supported me to agree,but both of us don't want to hurt each other again...what should I do?

We both feeling all awkward about it,and I have no idea how he's feeling...'cause we're being separated by distance and parents,and I'm not sure if our relationships can last any longer.And since he's really smart and talented,most of the things I told him are lies....I felt I should be honest,but can't help it... (I'm the master of all lies...kidding.But this story is true...).I also felt as if he's lying to me as well...I mean he's way too adorable,and girl go gaga on him.I'm not sure if he likes other girls,too.So yeah........Why did he have to pick me..T_T

I feel so used...what should I do?Please help...

[multifaceted]

You suddenly don't make any sense to me, Josh.

Why are we caring about distance? The relationship will still be the same if they were in adjacent states or east/west states.

It is because of this distance that tempts her to lie about herself to attract this guy because she probably knows that she will never really meet face to face with this guy.

Back to the topic.

If you want to keep the relationship with him (relationship in general), I suggest you guys just be friends and nothing more. If you continue with the relationship as bf/gf, I assure you that the ending will not be pretty and that you might probably come back crying/posting here that you guys broke up because you lied.

I think the best way to handle this situation is to just end it here and now and just be friends.

Now you've learned your lesson. Don't ever lie to a guy if you like him just to get him and think you can get away with it. Trust is one of the most important things in keeping a commited relationship. If you lied to him from the start, he is not going to trust you no matter what you do and what excuse you give.

[*Uronacid*]

You suddenly don't make any sense to me, Josh.

Why are we caring about distance? The relationship will still be the same if they were in adjacent states or east/west states.

It is because of this distance that tempts her to lie about herself to attract this guy because she probably knows that she will never really meet face to face with this guy.

Back to the topic.

She never said how far away she lived... it must be of some importance if she mentioned it in her first post. I guess I just wanted to understand why she posted it. Those questions had no relevance to what I had said before them.