Made a Mistake, SOS, Want to fix it!!!, I would love your opinion! Options

[ninaD]

So I need some advice here...I will try to give a bit of background. I moved to a new city with this guy I met at school, we dated a year and a half we were going to get married, BUT he cheated on me so we broke up, he was my first love and first everything. So I was obviously heart broken and went through it pretty roughly...anyways then about two months later I met this guy, and he swept me off my feet, treated me like every girl wants to be treated, did everything for me! Although the 1st guy tried to get back together with me and I didn't accept it for obvious reasons as I stated above...so me and this new guy fell in love and he treated me like a princess better than I have ever been treated...BUT since my 1st got in the way of the new guy I was not allowed to talk to him anymore etc. etc and so eventually I couldn't handle it becasue I wanted to still be his "friend" so I kept talking to him, and when new guy asked I lied about it, over and over again. So he found out about it all, and now he is heartbroken and soooo hurt and sooo mad. And if anything it made me realize how good I had it with him, and how much of a loser the 1st was! What should I do? Can I fix it, how? Or is he better off with someone who won't lie!

[DominicanaMel]

Well, you already know u shouldn't have lied, so I won't dwell on that....Are you two still together? If so, if you feel that you still want to be with him and you'll be honest with him, keep asking for forgiveness....Maybe he felt that since you lied, it was for a reason other than to keep from hurting his feelings....Maybe he thought you were cheating... And for the record, a guy that cheats on you doesn't care about you or your feelings. IMO you're better off staying away from him....