Confused About Sexual Orientation..., What would u say? |
 Jan 30 2007, 02:21 PM
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I have a friend who thinks he's bi or gay but he says doesn't want to be......I say that attration is one of the hardest feeling to ignore......Plus his family is not too open minded about homosexuality.......
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Jan 30 2007, 04:40 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
You cannot always "decide" your sexuality.
You are one sexuality and that's that. You cannot really change what you feel now can you? If his family is not open-minded about homosexuality, he should still not be afraid to come out of the closet. His family should love him the same whether he is gay, bi, or straight. If not, then his family needs some councelling. |
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Jan 30 2007, 05:30 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
I know how hard it can be to accept that maybe you have feelings for the same sex. I denied it for almost 10 years. and still many more deny it for longer.
but denying it does no good. He's gonna have to face it eventually, its not something that will just go away. its not a matter of whether or not you want to be. Many LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transexual) individuals would give anything to be straight. but eventually most of them come to accept it and eventually can even say they're proud to be LGBT. just give him some time. as for the family, I'd suggest he doesnt tell them right away. Its good to tell them eventually, but if they aren't terribly accepting, it might not be a good idea to do it right away. QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 30 2007, 4:40 PM)  If his family is not open-minded about homosexuality, he should still not be afraid to come out of the closet. His family should love him the same whether he is gay, bi, or straight. If not, then his family needs some councelling. thats how things should be, but thats not the reality of many situations. I have a few friends who were kicked out of their homes because they told their parents that they were gay/bi. people shouldnt have to be afraid to come out, but sometimes that fear is justified. |
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