soo; new man interest for me & i'm not sure what to think of it, eep. i am such a relationship noob; help is nice (: Options

[mytangerine]

ok. so i met this guy through a friend at a party, his name is mike.. we've been conversing on the phone for about 3 weeks now. i know who he is, i know he's not creepy, i know he's not a staulker etc. the point is: it seems like we know everything about each other, & we've gotten to know each other pretty darn well. also, we haven't hung out yet. on saturday we're supposed to & it seems like we've already basically planned to make out. haha. now my question is: would making out on a first date make me too easy or willing to get into a relationship too quickly? i really want to, he deserves it but i don't want him to get the wrong idea about me.. opinions, thoughts?

[*Uronacid*]

Ps: Acid, you are at the tip of my tounge at the moment...
''Haha, dude... I'm not sure if you just tell people what they want to hear or not... ''
I know you do not like my advice, still you don't have to comment on each post i give. This is the third or fourth time!
I get you for godness sake!
Maybe you don't like it but others might find it useful. I'm sorry, different people have different point of views.

**People post here to get different point of views and ways to slove thier relationship problems.**

I give others 'advice' on past relationships I have been in and from experinces that my friends have shared with me.

If you follow love by rules, than so be it. To me love is boundless. Love is a thing that you cannot control. How can you say that on a first date, people cannot kiss. And those sets of rules, 'you cannot date your friend's ex'.
To me, all that is bullshit, no offence.
If your relationship/s worked around your golden rules, than good for you!
You got your set of gloden rules, I got my experinces and free mind.

It seems that you are the only one having a problem reading my advice.
If you do not like it, than just ignore it. Simple. Please stop challanging me.
Pff. thanks and don't bother replying..

Look, I don't know why you are upset. I did agree with you. I'm just being sarcastic/fun when I make up these rules. Really all I want to do is provoke thought, and see if you know what you're talking about.

My relationships do not work around goldenrules. Everperson in this world is raised differently and therefore needs a different type of love.

I do have a free mind, and I am willing to respond to the challanges that you present me with. I personlly welcome challange because it makes me a better person. I appologize for offending you by challanging you, but isn't it the challanges in life that make you a stonger person.

If I present this challange and you overcome it. You will not only change my beliefs (which I will greatly appriciate because I will learn something new), but you will also be more confident in yourself. To me relationships are like a science. I study books about them.

I would say attraction is uncontrollable. You can control your love for someone. People do it all the time by making choices that aren't loving.

I don't have a problem with your advice, but I'm unsure if you know what you are actually talking about. This is why I'm challanging you. I only want to further understand your piont of view. I don't find your advice to be bullshit.

The only reason I advised against kissing on the first date was to entice that dude to come back for more on a second date. People can kiss whenever they want.

If you are offended and want to PM me, then I am perfectly ok with that. You really shouldn't be though, I'm not a mean guy and will work things out if you like. ;]