3 girls and 1 guy, What should I do? Options

[princess*missy]

Hey Everyone. First off, I just want to say how much I appreciate it that you guys are taking the time to read this. Well, I have a problem... I like this guy, Brandon, and so does my friend, Courtney, but in the mean time... My other friend Jessica, likes him too... and he's her ex, from like a year - two years ago... She's (Jessica) been telling everyone including me that she gives up on him because he's not responding to her calls. But everytime I see her she's always talking about how much she loves Brandon. Thing is she doesn't know I like him.

I don't wanna loose my two friends by trying to go out with Brandon but shouldn't they consider how I feel too? Help me please!

[maximelids]

I am going to be very frank with you.
I am not going beat around the bush or stuff like that.

Lol what rules are that?
Love does not go by rules. Love is bondless.

If you do get into a relationship with him, I see no reason why you should feel sorry for your friends. Because it's his choice whom he wants to love/like. You can't force him to like his ex. They broke up, life moves on. Yes I might sound cruel, but that's life. It never turns out the way you want it to.
In fact if I was your friend, the one that broke up 2 years ago with him, I would feel happy for him that he has met someone wonderful. If she starts to backstab you and stuff, I can tell you that she is not a friend at all.
**You can't demand someone to love you. You got to earn and respect someone's love. - that's a piece of advice to your friend.

There is a BIG difference between a crush and love.
If I was you, I would take things slowly, step by step.
And remember, if he want's to know you better, it does not mean that he likes you.
Become his friend at first, than his good friend, than his best friend and if all things are working out very well, than why not try a relationship?
Never rush things too quickly. Follow the flow of water, never swim against it.
Th most important thing in a relationship is to be yourself. Never try to be someone great or lie. I

Well I got so much more to say, but I guess it's going to start to sound draggy.
Hopefully my advice helps you out.
Peace out.
Max

[*Uronacid*]

I am going to be very frank with you.
I am not going beat around the bush or stuff like that.

Lol what rules are that?
Love does not go by rules. Love is bondless.

If you do get into a relationship with him, I see no reason why you should feel sorry for your friends. Because it's his choice whom he wants to love/like. You can't force him to like his ex. They broke up, life moves on. Yes I might sound cruel, but that's life. It never turns out the way you want it to.
In fact if I was your friend, the one that broke up 2 years ago with him, I would feel happy for him that he has met someone wonderful. If she starts to backstab you and stuff, I can tell you that she is not a friend at all.
**You can't demand someone to love you. You got to earn and respect someone's love. - that's a piece of advice to your friend.

There is a BIG difference between a crush and love.
If I was you, I would take things slowly, step by step.
And remember, if he want's to know you better, it does not mean that he likes you.
Become his friend at first, than his good friend, than his best friend and if all things are working out very well, than why not try a relationship?
Never rush things too quickly. Follow the flow of water, never swim against it.
Th most important thing in a relationship is to be yourself. Never try to be someone great or lie. I

Well I got so much more to say, but I guess it's going to start to sound draggy.
Hopefully my advice helps you out.
Peace out.
Max

I don't know what to say about this... you're only looking out for her best interest, but I feel like something wrong about this. I'm not sure if you know a lot about the subject of love, or if this is just a hollow shell. I'm not criticizing. In fact, if you do know a lot about the subject of love when my girlfriend and I post our article about love and relationships I think that you'll find it to be very interesting. I encourage you to give me some of your own Ideas when my girlfriend posts it.

[maximelids]

You are most welcome, Princess-Missy

I don't know what to say about this... you're only looking out for her best interest, but I feel like something wrong about this. I'm not sure if you know a lot about the subject of love, or if this is just a hollow shell. I'm not criticizing. In fact, if you do know a lot about the subject of love when my girlfriend and I post our article about love and relationships I think that you'll find it to be very interesting. I encourage you to give me some of your own Ideas when my girlfriend posts it.

I aplogise, but I do not understand the second half of your message,

''In fact, if you do know a lot about the subject of love when my girlfriend and I post our article about love and relationships I think that you'll find it to be very interesting. I encourage you to give me some of your own Ideas when my girlfriend posts it.''
Care to further break it down for me? Thanks

Well I had my share of relationships. Most of my relationships have been very complicated, so I guess I had some similar problems as others. I try to help them and give them 'down to Earth' advice.

Max

[*Uronacid*]

You are most welcome, Princess-Missy
I aplogise, but I do not understand the second half of your message,

''In fact, if you do know a lot about the subject of love when my girlfriend and I post our article about love and relationships I think that you'll find it to be very interesting. I encourage you to give me some of your own Ideas when my girlfriend posts it.''
Care to further break it down for me? Thanks

Well I had my share of relationships. Most of my relationships have been very complicated, so I guess I had some similar problems as others. I try to help them and give them 'down to Earth' advice.

Max

Me (Uronacid) and my girlfriend (Intercourse) are putting something together for the site... an article on the long distance relationships/the most common relationship problems that we see on the site. I hope to hear from you when we post it.