Being led on, or being used? Options

[SpedMonkee]

Ok, I am going to try to explain this the best i can because as of right now I am not very clear headed and am so unbelievably angry.

For those who don't know the background here: (reading it is not necessary)
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=163654

But I have liked this girl for a long time now and when I finally told her how I felt (which was a little over a week after she broke up with her bf of 1 year) she said "this is a horrible time to tell me". I agreed, and understood, so I gave her some space.

SHE then starts to flirt with me (leaning on my, sleeping on me, holding my hand) a few days later. She kept it up, not me though I didnt push her away or anything. Things kept up like this for about a week or so, then last saturday she didnt hang out with me and our group because "one of her friends was coming home for the weekend". Since then she seemed distant and then wednesday rolls around and she TEXTS me, yes texts me, this:

"Dont Wait for me, im sorry but i dont think i feel the same way you feel about me and there is someone i am kind of seeing....And I am sorry if i have ever let you on in any way, I didnt mean to. I just wanted things to stay the same."

Then later on that night goes on to list herself as in a relationship.

I havnt talked to her about it since, mainly because I am so pissed off and upset I dont even know what to say to her.

I feel like I was just being used to help her get over her ex. And the fact that she was "seeing somone" the whole time just makes me even angrier.

I havn't talked to her, or anyone for that matter, about it because I feel like I am just overecting considering we never went out and such.


Even if no one responds to this (though i hope someone does ) it was good to vent everything and let it out.

[ilauqh]

You should probably just talk to her and ask why she acted like she liked you even though she was with someone else. And try to make her understand that it wasn't fair to you and put you through a lot of pain. I know it will be hard to talk to her again but you definitely should because instead of never being friends again, it's better to at least try to start fresh, no matter how hard it is. Trust me I know... I lost two great friendship from ex boyfriend and a guy that liked me that I didn't like back.