'The one?', Hmm? |
'The one?', Hmm? |
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![]() Pocketful of Sunshine ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 ![]() |
Lately, I've been thinking.. I'm tired of people trying to find 'the one.' Because seriously, there is no such thing as that, IMO. I believe that you can be with anyone as long as you both want to make it work.
So, do you believe in "the one?" Or do you think it doesen't exist? |
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![]() that's what she said ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 ![]() |
I do think that there's such thing as the one, but I don't think it's like a soulmate. I see it more as the one you meet & pretty much fall in love with & are willing to spend the rest of your life with.
idk, it's complicated. ![]() |
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![]() Pocketful of Sunshine ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 ![]() |
I don't even bother to look for it. I don't need it. I'm fine being by myself. That wasn't really what I was asking.. But alright. ![]() I do think that there's such thing as the one, but I don't think it's like a soulmate. I see it more as the one you meet & pretty much fall in love with & are willing to spend the rest of your life with. idk, it's complicated. ![]() Couldn't you do that, then break up with someone, and then do that again? ![]() |
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QUOTE I believe that you can be with anyone as long as you both want to make it work. I disagree. Some are just so incompatible and so different that when trying to make a relationship like that work, well, it's hell. I've met people who have had disastrous relationships even though they tried for years. Couldn't you do that, then break up with someone, and then do that again? ![]() Again, I disagree. If one falls so deeply and is affected by the other so much then they may not be able to see someone like that again. 'The one' seems to imply some sort of fairy-tale romance but I think that actually, people just have to look and find the so-called perfect one rather than 'settling.' Settling being: forcing a relationship to work when it simply won't. But who may be that 'one' is hard to say, naturally. So in a way, yes, I do believe there is someone 'perfect' for me and others.. And I'm a huge skeptic and cynic so to get me to say that is..>.> |
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